Am I at fault was I to harsh?

My tenant thinks I’m lying I sent a text message and letter under her door for rent increase a month ago and she never got it I screenshot it and the last convo is not my screenshot on her phone I sent two letters threatening eviction by taping it on her textbook she messaged me at 3 am

she's lived with us 4 years and as always paid her rent but my text message not show in her phone

Am I at fault was I to harsh?
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