I'm in a casual relationship with a 24(M) at the moment.
He called me one morning to arrange a date for that evening. He was very excited and couldn't wait to take me out that night.
1 hr before our date he cancels on me and says he had to go out of town for a family event that he forgot about.
I said it was fine and that he should keep in touch and we can do something the following day. The following day comes and he's ignoring my calls and texts.
We didn't end up hanging out because he ignored me for the whole day.
When i did hear from him the day after he said he had lost his phone and that we originally agreed to meet up next week.
He was wrong because the texts i had said otherwise.
It really pissed me off so i got angry at him because this isn't the first time he's been unreliable and flaked.
He said he's sorry and it's due to his mental health issues.
I told him to give me a couple of days space because he hurt me and that it feels like he's using me and stringing me along.
I haven't heard from him, but was i unreasonable to get angry at him?
He's been so hot and cold lately and i know it's because he's mentally unstable but it doesn't mean i should be disrespected and shut out.
Was it wrong for me to blame him and ask for space because he hurt me? or am i just being over sensitive and over reacting?
