How should I surprise my boyfriend when he gets home from work?

[Anonymous]

[motownplayer2000]

I find it funny that all the ways that people are saying are pretty much sexual. Why not greet him with words, hey how was your day, anything you need? A warm meal, or a cool drink. Greet him with peace, and a listening ear. Draw a bath or shower and have his comfy clothes out and do something you don’t usually do, like if he is a gamer, say I want to play video games with you tonight. Or watch that show you like that I’m not into. It doesn’t always have to be sexual.

[Asker]

I agree with you!

[Summeroflove]

I agree not everything needs to be sexual. If someone thinks sex is all they have to give unfortunately they’re sadly misled and will probably only get men who use them for sex since it’s all they give.

Now, a good way to greet him could be getting him a gift, giving a massage, having dinner ready, taking him somewhere he loves to go, etc.

[HitsyHonesty]

Prepare a hot bath for him if he likes those! After a long day at work. Bath and a glass of wine... a great way to relax!

[Asker]

We don't drink, what's a good alternative? Hot chocolate milk?

[HitsyHonesty]

That or soup! Winter is coming! Or Tea!

[Mr1derful]

Reading all the sexual commments lol. While I can’t disagree, I do see you still live at home. I’m not really into material things, so something from the heart speaks a million words! Or I’d say take him to his fav place, go for a nice hike or camping or something. Honestly a chill night of watching something, cuddling, getting my backscratched or something would make me more than happier and be perfect!

[lightbulb27]

what does he like to feel loved. if it's touched, help him relax after he has time to decompress and massage or take to massage place. or dinner or etc..

good question, gets me thinking...

[Asker]

He does like back massages but it hurts my hands. He has back problems.

[Z1pTD]

Get him some food and something to drink and then ask him about his day and tell him about yours :)

[elizamichale1]

Greet him naked at the door

[Asker]

I still live with my parents 😅

[elizamichale1]

Even better...
It's much kinkier when their's a risk of getting caught is involved hehe... I m sure u can find sum way... I also live with my parents n I do that often hehe

[Finchie40]

Greet him at the door wearing lingerie , Guy’s love when a girl does the for him

[Anonymous]

By letting him transition from work to home before you expect anything from him.

[Asker]

What?

[Opinion Owner]

The cliche is to be waiting for him in lingere or whatever but that isn't reality, when someone first gets home they most likely just want to be left alone so they can get in the door maybe change or something and generally just adjust from 'work mode' to being themselves again, most people are putting on a front of some kind when they are outside their homes.

Some people like to have a moan about things, it doesn't mean anything and they are not asking you for solutions you just need to allow them to express their outrage at how awful everything is.

I simply do not think there is any 'surprise' that anyone wants when they get home from work.

But I don't speak for everyone, it's just a generalisation, if you want to know how he feels about it then ask him but even then all you are going to get is what he thinks he wants so that might not have anything to do with reality either.

[Asker]

He likes those surprises tho I did them a lot in the past

[AydenHazor]

Have his favorite meal ready and waiting for him, serve it to him in lingerie, then tell him it's time for dessert as you start to strip for him

[nudeNhorny]

Depends, if he returns tired and need to relax, or ready for some action 😏

[Asker]

He likes both

[nudeNhorny]

well if he needs to relax you can take any of the others suggestions like the hot bath and stuff, or maybe a massage.
and if he returns with enough energy still in in his tank, I guess you can wait for him in a sexy lingerie, wine, candles, music... and give him some sexy time that will make him can't wait to return home from work every day.

[hbkfan]

Sit on the couch butt naked lol he would be surprised as soon as he opens the door

[DeeDeeDeVour]

A delicious home made feast, for starters.

[sheikalana]

Tidy the house and cook him a meal.

[Anonymous]

By giving him the money you made off your nudes on onlyfand

[Asker]

I don't have onlyfans

[DryGermanGuy]

Put a bucket of ice water on an ajar door. 🥶

[BigDog1989]

Why, so you can get laid? I'm assuming

[Asker]

I get laid everyday, I wanna do something special for him

[BigDog1989]

Then ask him what he'd like

[Asker]

It's not the same as a surprise tho

[BigDog1989]

Yeah, women dont like surprises, men don't either

[Asker]

Depends on the surprise and person I'd say

[BigDog1989]

Nope

[Asker]

🙄 k

[BigDog1989]

Yeah!

[Wise4myage]

I agree, greet him totally naked!😛

[Iron_Man]

Surprise him with what

[maroon_eyez]

Hot bath, lingerie, a beer or wine

[Asker]

He doesn't drink alcohol tho

[maroon_eyez]

Why not a virgin mojito with fruits?

[Asker]

Well in good ol' belgium we can't find the ingredients (lime) that often and it's fall so that's a no go. Except if I buy already made ones but I feel that's less romantic

[Bklynbadboy12]

With the body con dress with nothing underneath it

[Anonymous]

Rimjob. get dirty!

[Anonymous]

Depends on what's the surprise