Could you handle arguments in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I couldn’t. Knowing I’ve made my partner upset would make me feel shitty and I would think he wouldn’t want me around anymore. So I would call it quits. Also, I’m pretty known to make people upset and miserable. Even loved ones.

[Anemone978]

Considering I don't really care about anything in our relationship anymore we don't really have arguments.. but before I could always handle arguments when we did have them because I won't have someone put me down before they see their own shit they are standing in.

[sheikalana]

Of course! Arguing is part of life and relationships.

[Asker]

I’m that type of person who hates making my loved ones upset. So I happen to distance myself because I feel they would be better off.

[sheikalana]

Well, that's immature. You cannot hide or run away everything sh*t hits the fan. You will upset others even if it's intentional it's part of life as I said and other people will upset you too.

[Asker]

It’s why I can’t handle being in a relationship.

[dudeinohio]

Arguing is natural... nothing personal... just a difference of opinion. Nothing to worry about unless it is happening all the time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I like peace, I am tired of dramas

[Anonymous]

No, i shut down every time we argue. He’s the exact opposite. He can't handle me shutting down and needing time alone so it mostly ends up even worse.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't be with my husband if we argued.

[Jennz6]

I don’t like to argue

[eagle1951]

yeah i could and have