What are arguments like when you’re in a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

What are arguments like when you’re in a serious relationship? What’s hard when you’re first experiencing it?

[JaxiCats]

Well it differs but for me and my boyfriend it’s usually kinda ugly considering that when we get into an argument it’s usually over the phone or we’re so passionate about something and we both end up crying like and holding each other like we know it’s not easy especially considering I have a habit of emotionally or mentally checking out of the arguments to avoid them because they are stressful and he’s trying to get me to face them instead of running away or hiding. We also realize that we are the type of people who have to see each other in person if we get into an argument to properly talk and just in general work together as a couple. It’s not always easy but it’s worth it for me and him as it helps us understand each other better and what we want

[Darine123]

Yell at each other for an hours, throw a 🗑 at him. He spit on my face , pour a beer on me. Treated to go see prostitute. Punch him. He squeezed me.
But thank god now I found a better guy who has my back and we never yell at each other once

[BJP21]

Well when you get tired of running each other into the ground, you can bring the family into it. LOL

In all reality though, jokes aside, having an argument is a healthy thing, but have a tactful one. When you stop arguing or never argue that can be an issue as well because you stopped communicating.

[Guy13]

Passionate at times. Sometimes stop and speak more evenly toned is required. I’ve never seen things thrown or hit etc. I have seen “anger spit” spraying shoot out of a mouth.
It varies…

[JustiReno]

Fight for hours over: me not copying Zoom link fast enough, not showing her back seat properly on video call when n in car, saying she’s strong

she said she not but she actually pretty tough chic

[dreamstar72]

Yell at each other for a few minutes than drop it. Kiss and tell each other “I love you honey” happens about 4 times a year for us. It is all over dumb stuff.

[Anonymous]

A healthy relationship allows each to voice their opinions openly, sometimes strongly, sometimes loudly. And know that the underlying relationship will support the heated discourse and you'll be loved still after it dies down again.

[Anonymous]

It was emotional during beginning. Now we both know, anyway we'll talk after a cool off time. So arguments are mostly funny now.