If someone broke up with you cause they said they needed more time with you, and then came back, would you get back together with them?

[Nataliap]

The person works 6 days a week but the other realized they want to try to make it work.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Adios.

I would no longer be interested.

[HappyWoman34]

No. I give lots of time already if I’m interested.

[BoopBoopBeep]

She'd have to bring a WHOLE lot to the table.

[Nataliap]

Like what? The ability not to voice concerns?

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't have any idea what that means. I also don't know what's important to the next guy you're sitting across from, but why would he choose you vs someone who didn't already put him through that ordeal?

[Nataliap]

It means she was concerned about how the lack of time he would be able to invest in the relationship would affect them as a couple lol. I’m sure other women would also be concerned but whatever lol.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I mean she can voice concerns all day long that doesn't change reality. If your concern is I travel too much for my job, well I'm a pilot so you're going to have to get over it or move on. I've dated people that were married to their job, I gave them a courtesy heads up that I'm about to leave without drastic changes. There weren't any changes I considered lasting or sufficient, so I found somebody else. Just simple math. Tally up the plusses and minuses, is this worth continuing? Why would he suddenly have more time now than he did before? Did he turn from being a pilot to working at a bakery? What, substantively, changed?

[Anonymous]

Nah once broke up done i move on easily

[dudeinohio]

Nope