Could you be in a committed relationship with someone that eventually decided they just want to be FWB’s with you? Would you accept their offer?

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You were both committed to each other and in love but your partner decides they no longer want to be tied down to you , so instead of breaking up completely with you , they ask you to still be FWB’s with them with No strings attached. What would you do?

Реrverted_Сreeр · Accepted Answer

You see, my love, when it comes to sex, I'm always down for some unholy flex, friends with benefits's or commitment, it's all the same, As long as there's hard pounding and dirty games.

So if you're asking if I'd say yes, To a friends with benefits situation, amidst all this mess, The answer, my darling, is simply divine, I'd ride those unholy horror cocks like a fine wine.

For why settle for just one steady dick, When you can have a whole harem, so slick, And with each cock, a new adventure unfolds, A tale of passion, lust, and stories untold.

So bring on the friends with benefits's, my dear friend, Let's dive into pleasure, till the very end, And let our bodies be consumed by the heat, Of a wild orgy, so wickedly sweet. ﾠ

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

So now guys can cheat on you but not have to explain themselves when they're gone all night. Seriously? And if they can't find someone else they'll stick it back inside of you? Come'on! No fricken way. This would cause way too many problems - and what for?
The whole idea sounds like he wants to be a man whore. So let him. Don't let him give you any STD's! Just don't see him again.

Drewtate · Accepted Answer

Women generally want the committed relationship rather than friends with benefits even if they see no future with a guy or are hoping for better.

If you are a high quality man a lot of women especially if say you are an 8 and they are a 4,5,6,7 will accept a friends with benefits relationship hoping one day it will turn into something serious and maybe o e day marriage. Women always end up the lower in friends with benefits relationships because they would never be in one with a guy that they don't think is good enough to be in a committed relationship with.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I dated a woman for two years. She never said that she was in love with me but I was hoping it would happen. She was content with dating, spending time together, and having sex on a regular basis. . . and she didn't want to date anyone else, but she also did not want to commit to me.

I was in love with her, but I broke up and moved on down the road.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I would NEVER be interested in friends with benefits.

Anonymous · Answer

friends with benefits is a scam. As a girl, I would tell him to go f**k himself. When you say friends with benefits, the "benefits" are always for the guy. What does a girl get out of "just sex"? Waste of fertile time? Risk of pregnancy? Risk of STDs that could affect her future babies? Heartbreak? A girl can get sex whenever if she wants to. Why shouldn't she get it from someone who also cares about her and has the balls to commit to her, instead of someone who is just using her body as a sex doll?

The only way a girl would accept a friends with benefits relationship is if she secretly hopes to keep the guy and wait for or make him change his mind and love her in the end.

Mamaliv · Answer

No, because if we were already committed there would be feelings.

If your friends with benefits you gotta be careful not to catch feelings, those relationships don’t usually last because someone is gonna get ‘em.

That all being said I could’ve hung on to my ex just for the sex but it wouldn’t have been fair to him because he still loved me.

Pegases · Answer

I would, but I wouldn't give them the same amount of attention. Meaning we would be meeting up exclusively for sex. Not to go to the movies, not to "hang out". I say this because women love attention, and they often dont care if you miss out on better women as long as they get what they want from you. So the key here would be to ensure the friends with benefits, does not eat up all your time, so that she doesn't hinder you from finding women that are better for you in the long run.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i have a friends with benefits and it's exclusive if that makes sense... why not become boyfriend and girlfriend... because he wants certain things done and i like giving it i guess... but at the same time i don't have a boyfriend or someone who'll marry me either.

MrOracle · Answer

You can't go backwards - unless there is a HUGE difference between SMV (social market value). Sure, if you were Brad Pitt in the 90s, or Chris Hemsworth or some other hot celeb with an average girl, she might accept it, but that's the rare exception. This would be the same as the girl telling the guy "I want to stay in this relationship, but I don't think we should have sex anymore." What guy would accept that?

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Depends on how good the sex is and what's going on in my life. Right before a deployment? Sure we can do this. Not like I'm going to enter a new relationship a week before I ship out. When everything is normal? Well, we can keep having sex, but that'll end soon when I find the next person for a relationship.

petitedollbabee · Answer

No. Either continue the relationship or nothing at all. If they want to be friends with benefits then they can do that with someone else.

ShesRad80 · Answer

nope- that relationship would cease to exist, after him asking me that.

Dinklex3 · Answer

No, lol. Id say let’s break up and go our separate ways.

spartan55 · Answer

Let me think about that for a second... uh FUCK NO.

Juxtapose · Answer

Maybe if she was really persuasive and mature about it all. I would regret losing a good relationship but at least we could still have good sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Friends with benefits? Never. I would simply break up with the said person. I don't like fwbs, hook ups or situationships kinda thing.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nope I have no interest friends with benefits relations. If she doesn't want to commit then I'll go and commit to someone else who won't waste my time with nonsense.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am married, but in the past I have had purely physical relationships with people. It is really not that hard to do.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like they got bored and find it easier to say to be friends with benefits either to keep using you or because they aren’t fully ready to move on but want to mess around with others …. I don't know how I’d feel about that honestly

Billlewis · Answer

Virtually all of my relationships have been that way, and I just service her orally without being allowed to have intercourse with her.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

So in they wanted to fuck others, and only wanted sex and nothing else? Nope, I'm out.

Nifrayu · Answer

I think I would. It would likely require an adjustment period depending on how much romantic love I felt for her. But I could get comfortable with that.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

No I wouldn’t. As I’d get hurt emotionally.

Radiate143 · Answer

No, that's really selfish of them. 🤢

exitseven · Answer

I think would have a hard time accepting this.

sheikalana · Answer

Absolutelty not.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. I would not do that.

Agape93 · Answer

Sure

Kelly6 · Answer

depends on person

Anonymous · Answer

No way 🙅‍♀️ & how dare you ask!

TrueConfection · Answer

No thanks

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Nope 😂😂😂

aadrianaa777 · Answer

nope

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