How can I tell if a man wants a relationship with me. He calls me everyday but sometimes talks about sex?

[cdimples99]

This guy I've been talking to told me he is looking for a serious relationship and has talked to me about his personal problems. But he also talks about how he wants to make out with me and about having sex once in a while. I dont know if it is because I am extremely sexy and only wants sex, or if he really wants to have a relationship with me.

How can I tell and what should I do or ask to see whether he wants a serious relationship with me?

[RespectfulGuy]

First of all, you need to answer for yourself, What is a serious relationship?

Some of our answer is Marriage. Many in GaG have various degrees but before marriage.

What's yours? Marriage? Engaged? What?

If your "serious" means engage or marriage, then the focus is on life. This includes career, savings, buying house, investment, etc.

In simple term, build a nest then lay your eggs.

Otherwise you and him agree on the terms and boundaries. Then live by your agreement. Don't regret your arrangement.

PS: many couples do not marry but end up having kids and are happy. And many traditional couples married but divorced, leaving behind children as victims.

[RedInnocent68]

That’s easy! He does. He won’t waste time on someone he doesn’t like or doesn’t have to, and certainly wouldn’t normalize talking about something as sensitive as sex.

[sheikalana]

The only way to know is by asking him if he has expectations to have a relationship with you in the future or if he just wants to hook up with you. Some men will act all lovey dovey until they get in your pants and then they will disappear as if nothing happened.

[Alex8736]

He sounds like a virgin.. how old is he?

[cdimples99]

he's 40 but I know he's been in other relationships, he said he last ex was toxic

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

He wants it