If it's ok for a woman to wait until marriage to have sex then is it ok for a man not to want to spend money on her until she's his wife? (Page 2)

[exitseven]

One has nothing to do with the other.

[coachTanthony]

Nobody said it did

[spartan55]

@coachTanthony
Seems many in this thread think they are. I get the nuance in the question. Just requires a modicum of critical thinking.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Thats correct sir.

[inhua]

more incoming shame tactics

[inhua]

and entitlement for money

[spartan55]

Fair is fair right? Oh wait...

[KostasKouvalis]

That's very reasonable

[Twalli]

Sex should never be a transaction.

[coachTanthony]

Lol nobody said it is

[Twalli]

If you don't spend money on her until you start getting sex, it is a transaction.

[coachTanthony]

Same can be said If she won't have sex with you until you marry her that’s extortion and also a transaction lol

[Twalli]

Not really. Provided she's a virgin, or only slept with her ex husband while they were married, it's a value that they have.
Someone mentioned that her grandmother is dating again and won't have sex with the guy unless they get married. She is obviously not a virgin, but views sex as something that should only happen between husband and wife.
So if the girl has never had sex outside of marriage, or wants to remain a virgin until marriage, it's different than not spending money on her until you get sex.
Now if she's not a virgin and has had sex before marriage with other guys, and is holding out on you for whatever reason, then there's some truth go what you're saying.

[coachTanthony]

"Provided she's a virgin, or only slept with her ex husband while they were married, it's a value that they have."

My value is saving my money for my future wife. I believe my money should be spent only between husband and wife as well.

[Twalli]

Your update makes sense, I don't money when we were on dates before my girlfriend and I had sex. More after, but seeing as after sex was almost 5 years and before was 6 months, that makes sense.

[Twalli]

*I spent money on dated before sex, and after. But I still don't just pay for stuff she wants. I do buy her gifts though

[Christoff92]

Depending on the women and the men.

[Socaljp]

No I don't think that's right

[coachTanthony]

LOL what exactly don't you think is right

[Anonymous]

Sounds feasible, to me.

[jimmy2]

Wyw that could be a long time lol

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

Do u spend your money to have sex?

[ErtugrulCyln]

Mantıklı

[Kelly6]

totally fair

[Jamie05rhs]

Duh!

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[Tomisworthless]

Your money my choice

[aadrianaa777]

yeah