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If it's ok for a woman to wait until marriage to have sex then is it ok for a man not to want to spend money on her until she's his wife? (Page 2)
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Sex and treated a woman you asked out for dinner are two different things. Yes a man should still pay. If he does not want to pay then he needs to stop approaching women. If he thinks sex should be in exchange for meals then he needs to go to a prostitute.
This question is not about exchanging meals for sex but since you brought it up I agree that is terrible. Don't do that.
You put paying for meals and sex in the same sentence. Sex is not the same as paying for a meal. Sex equals the risk of pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, and asking her to give herself up to a man she doesn't know. That's crazy
I think that's about as perfect a summation as could be made. Also, I just started following you and I'd be privileged if you would follow me as well, if it's alright. Thank you very much.
@DreamLife7 who said the woman needs to give herself up to a man she doesn’t know? Wow you just making up all kinds of stuff now
@coachTanthony sir, you're 52 stop lol.
That's a very strange question. The two have nothing to do with each other.
They aren't supposed too... they are simply just two different values. check update.
Then why ask "if" as though one is dependent on the other?
Because it shouldn't matter. It's very likely two people might meet each other with these values that have nothing to do with eachother. It amazes me how many people compare the two.
That's why I am asking. If it doesn't matter, then why ask the question that way?
Because I want opinions on both values. Didn't think everyone would think men are all shit and use that value as revenge for her not putting out. Guess that is my bad lol
@Nifrayu you rock 😂 so bad ass with your responses love it
Any man can stick his $$ up his a**, I got my own. Always have. Face it, men have almost no power over relationships. Women don't need your money, so keep it and keep on not getting p*ssy either lol.
It should be but of course it is not ok. If he does that there will bw no marriage.
Men marry for sex. Women marry for money.
Yup.
Fully agree and have even told dudes that we dont need to know anything about eachothers income unless at least engaged
I do need to know if he's in debt however
I don't spend money on a woman to have sex because i never pay for sex and won't have sex before marriage...
Paying on a woman is something in my morals and because if i'm in a serious relationship than the girl will know that she's going to be a housewife after marriage
1st part of you question the answer is "yes".
The 2nd part my guess if all of this hinges on her putting out then it's not going to matter much after he gets married because he's most likely going to be a cheap motherf***er then as well.😆
Never said it hinges on her putting out …. I’m saying that’s just his values just like her not having sex before marriage is her values
You can dress it up however you like sounds like a "quid pro quo" to me, not his values. But I also believe in marriage before sex so maybe that colors my opinion on this the opposite of his.
You keep assuming the man and the woman are together …. just talking about two different people in general with their own values
I'm not assuming g anything. I don't get where you're getting that from. You brought "until she's his wife". That's the ONLY reason I'm assuming that as the goal.
Alright thanks for the comments
A man who is content with himself doesn't have problems sharing his wealth with others, woman or not.
Men can share with whomever they want. So if a man waits and wants to spend it on his wife that's bad I guess lol
You’re straight up saying that women are prostitutes and men should only spend money on them if sex is involved. How old are you? What kind of man thinks this way? JFC!!!
only if it is an ultimatum woth same person. but this is a type of logic, delay so delay.
@AnotherDay88 Neither one has anything to do with the other.
He's 52 😂
@DreamLife7 No means No. I will not be your Daddy or Big poppa 🤓
Either you're trolling us or age is not an indication of a wisdom.
Woman will only wait to have sex until she is married if she finds a man will similar views.
If you don't want to spend money on women, that is your choice. However, even a child knows the joy of giving and making others happy. You don't have to someone "Big poppa" ( whatever that means) to be a kind and giving person.
That is all.
@AnotherDay88 LOL you must have no clue who I am which is pretty funny in itself.
I know who you are: pompous, self appointed guru operating on sexist ideas to shamelessly promote his ego in order to influence young and inexperienced individuals.
@AnotherDay88 God Damn can I steal that for my bio?
He's not even that he's 52 and emotionally damaged and lonely. Near nursing home ager
@DreamLife7 Hey now that wasn't nice.
@coachTanthony it's not meant to be rude it's the honest truth. I see it all the time where men end up lonely on nursing homes due to this mentality.
@DreamLife7 That won't happen to me because you'll be there to wipe my dribble and change my diaper. That is what good conservative old fashioned wives do right... you're the best.
I don't see how one has anything to do with the other. If you don't want to spend money on me, fine. As long as you spend your time.
Good because they don't have anything to do with each other.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 fair enough if i think about it 😂😂😂😂
depends if i am paying for her food expected sex and she said wait til wedding then i won't wanna pay. but if i pay because of society then unaffected.
i misunderstood the question. it is not okay for a guy to delay paying. despite it is okay for girl to delay.
Exactly. If they are both delaying for their own personal reasons then why shouldn't that be okay?
No because it’s not a transaction of sex for money
Coach would have better luck with prostitutes
@anon1903 agreed lol. Although some of his questions are good.
Of course
there is nothing wrong with a guy who wants to spend all his money on his wife. There is nothing wrong with a woman waiting until marriage to have sex. He's not saying oh okay well if you won't have sex then I won't spend money. He is saying this no matter what. His future wife will enjoy his riches not just anyone he is seeing.
Enjoy his riches.. are you suggesting all men are rich, coach?
I'd never sell my virginity like this. It's a lousy way to go.
@coachTanthony ok that’s fair. But I also agree with @anon1903 that I would never sell my virginity. I want to lose it to someone I love. Or at least really like.
@WhitneySnow nobody is saying to sell your virginity. You should wait. These two users are trolls just an FYI
I am gonna wait. Thanks.
You do know sex and money are not related in any shape or form, right?
Yeah I do they two different values for two different people.
he didn't mean the same person ultimatum. he meant contrast of important stuff.
@strateguy632 Exactly.
It's okay for anyone, of either gender, to wait until marriage before they have sex. Actually, that's how it used to be, a long, long time ago. Why is this at all controversial?
Will you ever get a life.. Your questions become sillier all the time
I would say so. In fact I prefer to go dutch until I’m married to the guy, or at least in a relationship, but that’s just me.
Considering dating is essentially legal prostitution, Without the guarantee of sex, I fully support that.
It's perfectly OK for a person not to want to spend money on their partner until marriage. But that's not really comparable to having sex.
Hehehehe. I see. That is funny. They say women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment and marriage.
Your idea Seems only fair.