How do I manage this relationship?

[Anonymous]

I have a girlfriend, and we met not long ago. She's 21 and I'm 22. Everything's fine between us but the problem is that her father is very concerned about his daughter, very protective. She hasn't introduced me to her parents yet, in fact they don't even know she's met me.

I'd love to spend evenings with her at her house etc. but with her father it's almost impossible

[Anonymous]

I assume you had to be the one to ask her out and hit on her

[BoopBoopBeep]

Türkiye or USA?

[Asker]

Turkiye

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

You should marry to her to hang out

[Asker]

I'm not ready for the wedding yet. To get me to come to her house, she suggested that I crossdress, so that she could pass me off as a girl friend of hers.

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

Oh, no dude! lol. You should marry as soon as possible. She may say to her mom 'if you don't allow us to marry without wedding we' ll have sex without marriage '

[Asker]

Do you really think this could be a solution?

[petitedollbabee]

That is terrible advice. @Asker don’t take their advice seriously.

[Asker]

@petitedollbabee So what's your advice?

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

I think, u know best. I would do

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

By the way I live in Turkey too. She can say to her mom. I have a boyfriend and we experience same situation unfortunately. God help us!

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

My boyfriend has no any job yet. It's our reason

[Asker]

Oh, I understand. First I'll accept her idea of crossdressing me for a night with her, then I'll adapt.

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

If you are Muslim, don't do this God will punish u. We haven't have sex too and wait to marry for God. You can wait.

[Asker]

Yeah but My girlfriend and I are not believers.

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

I see u know but even if you are not believers you should wait or you may divorce after marriage because everything is beautiful in its time I know a lot of divorced pair like that

[Asker]

Hmm maybe you're right

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

U should think about this

[Asker]

Yes, it's either that or sacrifice my manhood.

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

Just think the first day in your marriage and be motivated!!! Aha!

[Asker]

Yeah girl

[Matthias345]

Well, his girlfriend seems determined to make him a crossdresser. 🤣

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

@Matthias345 lol

[Asker]

She told me she'd just bought me a pair of heels and some make-up.