A new guy at work openly tells me about how rocky his relationship is and has started to flirt/wink at me I feel uncomfortable what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[BlackBeauty90]

These are the general ways in which you can handle this. If you tell your manager first or the guy off first depends on the business dynamics - e. g. good vs bad management

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Tell your manager that he is making you uncomfortable. Ask to be moved if possible.

Tell him bluntly you're not interested. Stop talking to him.

In either situation if he continues, report to HR.

[sheikalana]

Do not engage in those conversation anymore. Keeps things professional avoid contact unless is something related to work.

[Luckycharms12]

Tell him stop

[Asker]

He sent me a Facebook request I’m just ignoring it entertaining people isn’t a good road to go down. Plus I’m already taken and I live with my boyfriend people assume I’m single as I don’t plaster it all over online

[Luckycharms12]

I understand I like to keep my private life private too. Hardly ever use social media really anyway all BS

[Asker]

It really is BS such a waste of time social media I hardly ever use it only messenger

[Luckycharms12]

Not missing much tbh never used it much not my thing

[jahaims]

Set boundaries