Out of my league or I am out of their league?

[Anonymous]

I have a problem

When I like someone and they like me back and start to talk and they get attached to me at this point I feel like I am too much for them

But whenever I like someone and they don't like me back I feel like I want to be with this person

I don't know what to do, I always think about the bad side of them man, his bad trials, I don't know if my mind trying to run from any healthy relationship or what

Anyway ever felt the same?

[kylee2437]

This is pretty common and I think it’s because when you like someone you start to attach yourself just like you are speaking about those guys you don’t truly like getting attached. Maybe start acting how you act when you aren’t attracted to men and it may attract the men you do like a little bit more

[Anonymous]

Well the men you want like a lot of women do, probably are on a whole different level than you. That’s why they don’t pick you. A lot of women feel like they’re on a higher level than what reality really says. But as for the ones you do like who like you back, how do I explain this. You want something you can’t have, meaning the other men who don’t go for you. The men who do want you, aren’t really what you want, there’s no challenge in it. They’d probably do everything you want them to do for you, treat you good, but that’s not what you want. You want the dudes who really don’t look at you in that way.

[Anonymous]

Think back on when this started and what caused it in the first place…