My past two exs everyone has said I’m extremely out their league but they believed they were the same league as me?

Everyone, even a stranger said to him she’s so out of your league and yet after that he said they just said it to be nice to me. He totally believed we were the same league

Then another boyfriend people said the same things to him

Do these men think I’m not that good or that they view themselves way more attractive than they are?
My past two exs everyone has said I’m extremely out their league but they believed they were the same league as me?
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