there was always this nice guy that had a crush on me since high school which was over 10 years ago. We are still friends and hang out. But when he drinks, feelings come out. He told me that he has loved me ever since high school and he is surprised that I was showing him attention. When I told him that he always dissed me, he says " I don't diss you your just out of my league" ...first time ever hearing that.
Should I feel hurt by this? makes me think how many other guys think like this.
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It means he's feeling insecure about himself in one or more areas and doesn't think he'd be able to make you attracted to him in the long run. He's thinking that you could do better than him (better looking man, richer man, more confident man, more stable man, etc.) and would upgrade to a new guy if the opportunity presented itself. He told you that to protect himself from you, because he probably thinks you'll move on easily given that he thinks you have way more options than he does, or at least perceives to have.0