If your partner was muliti-lingual (knew two or more launguages) would that be a turn on or a turn-off for you?

[Anonymous]

[Pοrnytail]

I don't think I'd be getting wet each time I hear the foreign language. ﾠ

[MrOracle]

Neither.

My girlfriend in fact IS bi-lingual, but it's not really a turn on or turn off. It's a useful skill, and I appreciate it, but it is something that attracts me.

Would you rather date a guy with Michelin tires on his car or Goodyear? Likely, you don't care either way because his brand of tire isn't an attraction factor for you.

It's essentially the same thing. Either way is fine.

[MrOracle]

*but it isN'T something that attracts me.

[Miristheiss]

It would have been a big source of interest... if my wife knew any other languages.

She seems to have zero interest in learning the 2nd language I know. I am raising our kids bilingual so they'll know both languages without having to study it. It is easier when they learn it from birth. It is like having 2 mother tongues.

[provokeesmokee]

Turn on, as a French-English bilingual person with some minor conversational experience in Spanish and ASL.

Monolinguists are a turn off.

There's a lot about being multilingual that monolinguists just don't get. And frankly, really only North America has such frequent monolingualism.

In most places in the world, speaking multiple languages is the norm.

[love_conquers_lust]

I regret opting out of French for Spanish.

[provokeesmokee]

You know you can still learn more languages as you age, right? That's an option.

[love_conquers_lust]

Je nu said pas. I asked a girl what that meant for two months at her locker before it donned on me it meant what she kept saying…”I don’t know.”

[love_conquers_lust]

sais*

[provokeesmokee]

Also *ne

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s a turn on during sex, I liked my ex tell me sweet things in his language during making love.

[NathanDavis]

all of my partners were.. and most of my friends, family as well...

but that's border life, so it's the most normal thing for me, always has been

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think it depends on what additional languages they knew. Sign language could be fun, and if they were willing to help me learn the language, that would be pretty exciting.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nearly all my ex girlfriends are multilingual (2-7). Didn't really make much of a difference as far as turn-on.

[Lliam]

I would find it admirable but not a turn on.
Unlesssss she spoke French. It drives me into a sexual frenzy (Gomez Addams?). 🤪
🤣🤣🤣

[menina]

It would be an huge turn on! I love people who are able to speak more than one language, so it would be definitely a plus!

[msmissydc]

isn't bilingual standart nowadays. I know close to no one who only speaks one language.

[madhatters4]

not necessarily a turn on. but certainly would be an attractive feature.

[MikeTheBartender]

I speak 3.2 languages. It's a huge turn on.. I also wanna live outside of the USA eventually so it's almost a requirement.

[Asimiv]

I'm in Europe, most of us (my age) are multilingual.

[Shiningtempest]

It would be a turn off for me because I see it as a sign of zero shared hobbies. I can only date a woman who shared same interest in watching anime. Thus, I will pass up an opportunity to date a multi-lingual woman.

[andreasderjuengere]

It's a practical skill.

But it will not turn me anywhere.

[Anonymous]

i really don't care. it's not something that turns me on or off.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

would be a turn on, since I speak 4 languages as well.

[Pohjolan]

Being multi-lingual is the norm in most 1st world countries.

[236color]

Neither really.

[exitseven]

It would make no difference to me.

[TacosRAwesome]

Somewhat of a turn on.

[RedInnocent68]

Turn on, but I would be extremely jealous.

[zagor]

It would be cool.

[AmeerX]

Turn on because I am multilingual too

[JustinTheGreat]

Turn on

[Uglycryer]

Don’t care

[jahaims]

Neither

[LavLavLuv]

Turn on