I am 23 years old and I was bullied in high school by a girl and since I was 16 years old I lost confidence in myself and I am always alone?

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lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

That happens. been there, done that. That's how things work with humans you know, and the more sensitive you are the more such incident (s) can cast you off course of your life.

Words are energy and in this case, is one case in life, where what someone did prevented you from trusting and being vulnerable and learning to create your own relationship.

I didn't sort that stuff out until after your age, so you are still young. I'm married now.

Get to work on yourself, understanding yourself, healing your deeper wounds/traumas and opening your heart. That's the way out in a new direction.

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Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Dang man, that sucks about being bullied. Some people just like to bring others down to make themselves feel better. It isn't right but it happens I guess. But you can't let one girl control you forever! High school is over now so you don't gotta see her anymore. I know it's hard, but you gotta start putting that stuff behind you and getting your confidence back. Maybe try joining a club or sports team to meet some new people who won't judge you. You seem like an ok dude, so just remember that and stop being so hard on yourself. Things will get better as long as you don't stay stuck in the past, ya know?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First stop living in the past your an adult! Stand on your own 2 feet and take small steps.

Don't whine like a baby or like it was last week. It was highschool so bet I was bullied way worse then you. Most girls were

Pick a place and work to make friend. Yes it's work they won't come to you unlike in movies!

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Jesus that was 30 years ago FFS. Move on. Maybe you're always alone because you're so traumatized that some girl in HS was mean to you a quarter century ago, and that's not exactly screaming "strong protector" vibes to anybody. You got bullied. Wah. Who didn't? Time to put your big boy pants on and step up to the plate.

Anonymous · Answer

Learn to throw a punch

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