How do you leave someone you know isn’t good for you?

[Anonymous]

I won’t go into too much detail but it seems like she is going out of her way to cross boundaries

[VanityFair888]

You just need to gather yourself and straight up tell them you're leaving. If a direct convo is very hard for you, call or text them.

I would prepare them like "we have to talk later and I'll have to tell you something bad" or with something like that. Then say directly that I'm leaving them.

Better warn them to receive those news as something that already happened, don't try to explain something or get in the arguments. "I'm leaving you" and that's it.

[Nikki1989]

What?

Leaving is the easiest thing to do if you seriously want to make that move.

[pass_the_celery98]

Leaving isn't the easiest thing to do, the fact that he posted a question about his thoughts means he's not acting emotional. Men and women think differently, men think rationally, women think emotionally.

[exitseven]

You have to make up your mind and once you go down that road there is no going back. Even if you wake up the next day and think you made a mistake you had a good reason and you will be glad someday.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Billlewis]

You say what Hillary, from 'The Fresh Prince Of Bel Aire' said to a guy who was hitting on her -- 'How can I say this politely? I'm too good for you'

[ManOnFire]

You have to ask yourself what is the benefit in it for you at the end of the day? And if there is one, is it really worth it?

[RavVid]

Just tell her she needs to not cross boundaries. She might be better for a while but she will just revert and you will need to walk away.

[Twalli]

I told my girlfriend captian boundaries that I have. They indicate things that I will dump her for. This is a girl I am going to propose to, but crossing those is nonnegotiable, it will end thr relationship (even a marriage). She doesn't cross them.

[Altheavas]

What’s holding you? You know that someone is not going for you..!

[Fireguy17]

Thank you and good night as you close the door behind you.
You just do it, unless you enjoy being used as a door mat.

[LiamJHayden]

Get up. Open the door. Walk through. Close behind you. Either literally or figuratively, that is how you do it.

[Unit1]

I use the door all by myself if that makes sense to you.

[TdotRep2023]

They aren't worth your time. No respect equals no love.

[PreciousJewel]

You break up with her.

[BoopBoopBeep]

At the curb.