Has someone ever left their significant other for you? If not, would it be flattering if someone would leave their spouse, or significant other for you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, someone has left their significant other for me

No, but I have left my significant other for someone else before m

No, but I would be flattered, if that happened

No, and I wouldn't be flattered, if that happened

[Anonymous]

when I was in highschool there was this guy who started coming to the tree me and my friends kicked it at and he would come directly to talk to me. He said he wanted to be honest and that he was interested in me and wanted to know if he let this girlfriend, if I would be his girlfriend. I laughed and said no!
I had never seen him before in my life.
after that he would come every day and he would ask me the same thing.

he was blonde with blue eyes but he was short. At the time I didn't care he was short, now I do, but back then I didn't care about height, the problem was him leaving his girlfriend for me was a big red flag for me. He could find someone else when he's with me and do the same thing. Gross type of person.

there's always going to be better looking people than your partner somewhere else, it's just fact. you don't drop who you're with just because you see something nicer some day.

Anyway, after a few months, he came to tell me he broke up with her to be with me. He thought I wasn't going for him because he wasn't actually breaking up with her, he was so wrong.

He became angry and said he did it for me!
I said well I never told you to do it or that I'd be with you that's your problem.

and every day after that he would come and say he left his girlfriend for me and almost cried one time it was fucking weird. and that was the last time I saw him

why would anyone feel pride or something good about being with someone that does that? it just means you're gonna be in that same position eventually. 👎🏼

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There have been some instances when they would do, if I gave them a green light.

I didn’t get flattered by it, as I think they’d do the same with me years later. So, such a man is not worth having.

[Krillanr]

I would appreciate the sentiment in a way, but I would find the entire effort dreadful. I don't want to be the cause of their abandoned mates misery. And I wouldn't trust them to not do the same to me in the future.

Completely, null.

[Twalli]

If a girl I like was in a relationship, I would make no moves on her. It's happened several times and they actually knew I liked them. Their boyfriends knew too. Since ai respected their relationship, it was maintained.

[HighValue]

One of my past co-workers repeatedly hit on me at work when she was married and offered to leave her husband for me. She even followed me to another work site and stalked me online. I was disgusted by her lack of morals. I have no interest in people like that.

[Anonymous]

I had a affair while I was with someone and the other person was too. I was going to leave my partner at the time anyway but I thought we were going to end up together. He never left his girlfriend. Now years later no I wouldn't be flattered. I regret my choices then. I never again.

[petitedollbabee]

I wouldn’t be flattered, although I wouldn’t chase after someone in a relationship in the first place. If they’re willing to leave their partner for me then there’s no trust that they wouldn’t leave me for someone else. No thank you.

[Sonjita]

Yes, my current boyfriend but I didn't know this until when we were already dating for a month and someone else told me. And no I don't find it flattering. I also left my boyfriend to be with him actually.

[NathanDavis]

nope... not as far as I know, lol

and no, I wouldn't like the idea of it... 99% chances I would not get involved with them if they did this way either

[wolfcat87]

They've offered to and my answer was always NO. If they are willing to do that to another woman, then they'd do it to me. Why would I want a man who isn't loyal?

[molonski2]

I found it quite embarrassing to be honest , its happened 3 times , and these SOs were friends of mine , so doubly difficult.

[strateguy632]

yes, several in my presence, when i agreed, to start dating, they called to break up "we need to talk we aren't working bye".

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it has happened several times. I find it more awkward than flattering.

[Likes2drive]

It’s never happened but it would be flattering if it did but it probably won’t happen because I don’t try to ruin someone else’s relationship

[PreciousJewel]

It's flattering if I like 'em back. If not, that's awkward as hell.

[exitseven]

It would be amazing because I am no prize

[SotiCoto]

Nah. I've been a rebound though.

[Yannae]

Yes, and I rejected her.

[MissBoogus]

Yes .