Have you ever left a relationship to be with someone else, or has someone ever left their partner to be with you?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, both

Nah

Yeah I left someone to be with someone else

Yeah someone left their partner to be with me

[Finchie40]

Yes both a handful of times , if I am being treated like a convenience in a relationship and nothing changes for the better, after numerous talks , I will become open to other females’ that pretty much come on to me , that I find beautiful and attractive to my eyes , that actually have a good heart and want the same things I want , I will then dump the girl I am with to be with her. As for the other question , I have hooked up with girls’ that cheated on their boyfriends’ and husbands to be with me , Most of them weren’t honest about their current relationship status until after we had sex and then they told me they have a confession to tell me , but some of them didn’t say anything at all and then I was confronted by her boyfriend or husband. I also been with a few girls’ that were honest about her relationship status with me , that told me she wasn’t happy in her relationship and was planning to leave her partner. I respected her honesty but told her there will be nothing more between us until she ends her relationship, so as of now this is just sex. I use to make a big deal about girls’ relationship status, until i realized that’s her problem not mine. People cheat all the time and people will try to sugarcoat it as much as possible because they are afraid to admit they are wrong. And afraid to take accountability for their own selfish behavior and actions. I use to be that way when I was younger , until I realized what’s even the point , just be honest , if you can’t be honest with someone don’t expect them to be honest with you , you are only hurting yourself amongst other people as well when you choose to lie , especially when they find out the truth that you weren’t being honest with them. I choose to be honest for a lot of these reasons , people can easily lie and backstab and betray you for no reason at all, mainly because they are selfish people that only care about themselves. I have met so many selfish people through the years and it’s just gettting worse , making it harder for people to trust each other. I can’t snap my fingers and change everyone , so I just accept it for what it is. Everyone has consequences for their selfish actions and behaviors. Just the way it goes. We live one time , so make the best of it. I love girls’ and I love sex , I am more than likely not going to say No to a beautiful girl that is throwing herself at me when I am single. My ass is getting laid

[ohsheeT]

No I would never let that even happen ever if I'm with somebody I'm with them if I'm not happy with them I'm going to try to fix it if it can't be fixed then I will walk away but I would not walk away for somebody else nor would I walk away for somebody else to come into my life I just not built that way I'm a die hard . I think anything and everything in this world can be fixed if two people want to fix it if they don't then they have to shake hands and walk away you start out as friends you ended his friends

[petitedollbabee]

Yes, I left someone to be with someone else. I was in a very unhealthy relationship and didn’t have the strength to leave it due to depression. My boyfriend was cheating on me multiple times and my self esteem was so low that I felt like I deserved it. I became friends with someone who helped me to get my self esteem back and they showed me that I could have a better relationship with them, so I moved on.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

First of all, I need to have someone whom I can leave/to be left.

But if we include pack of people, absolutely yes.

I have choices and I wouldn't like to waste my time with some who have values different from me.

[AI Opinion]

So you're diving into the spicy world of switching partners, huh? As a relationship coach, the entanglements people find themselves in are fascinating. I've seen folks opt for greener pastures before. It happens when new connections spark unbreakable chemistry, leaving the old relationship feeling stale. 🚀 Have I experienced it? Nope, but I've observed plenty! Those romantic plot twists can sometimes be the push needed for fresh starts or, dare I say, a love story overhaul! 😉 Just watch for those red flags, and ensure your choices are for the right reasons. 🌟

[OlderAndWiser]

In the very early stages of dating, a few times I dated two women at the same time. As soon as I decided that one of them was a good candicate for a LTR, I stopped dating the other one. This was usually after 3-4 dates.

[Purpleronnie]

Leaving a relationship to be with someone else seems a little ridiculous. If you can be so easily tempted to be with someone else then you or your relationship either needs work or is over anyway and you were just going through the motions. Additionally , how is this healthy emotionally, what tone does it set for the new relationship … if things get tough a little tough just look for someone else and jump ship?


You fix the relationship you do have if that’s possible or you walk away from it as hard as that can be it’s the right way. Yes there may be financial implications , considerable upheaval and change to your life combined with stress and hurt but that’s why you make sure it’s the only path left for you. Not just attempt to transplant your life and emotions into a new relationship.

[exitseven]

Yes, my ex girlfriend had a boyfriend that went to a different college. It did not seem like much of a relationship. I hung out with her a lot and eventually we got together and she dumped him.
I dated another girl for 4 or 5 months and she dumped me to go back to her old boyfriend.

[Nikki1989]

In my heavy dating days, sure, all the time, but that is what anyone with any common sense should do. If you can improve your existence, you do it.

[blueonblack22]

Of course women are more often leaving guys for someone else.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I left my first ever boyfriend to be with someone else. Though the relationship was failing dramatically anyway

[HungTexan]

My current wife left her boyfriend, and I left a girl. Once we had sex, we both knew.

[Oldschool1981]

My ex left me to live with her side guy but eventually left him to come back to me

[LiamJHayden]

I never have and I hope no lady has ever ditched someone to be with me.

[disappoint3d]

I've had multiple women cheat on other dudes with me.

[Crazzyyworld]

Sex & money is what relationship is all about

[NathanDavis]

nope, and nope...

[SleepingHazard]

I haven't, but my ex has.

[Smf1989]

No to both parts of your question

[12karen]

Nahh