How do I make his first time special?

[Anonymous]

My closest male friend wants to lose his virginity to me and to later marry me. I like him too. He’s supported me through every hardship I’ve faced and outlasted other guys in terms of caring about me. I feel that we could have a good chance of happiness together.

[exitseven]

You never said whether or not you love him. You like this guy as a friend. Eventually he will fall in love with you if he hasn't already and you will have to break his heart.

[Asker]

I love him.. I don’t yet know if I’m in love with him though. There’s some attraction.

[exitseven]

"There's some attraction" Now that sounds like a ringing endorsement.

[AviatorTom]

Give him a NURU massage, pleasure him, you get things going and then let him take charge.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Then he can return the favor with a Yoni massage.

[DaveJord]

Honestly, if its his first you will not have to do much. Seriously, all you have to do is open your legs for him... you will have him eating out of your hand for a least a few years.

[Lliam]

If he has led a sheltered, religious life, why does he want to have sex before marriage?
Is he okay with the fact that you aren't a virgin?
Will he still have respect for you and want to marry you if you have sex with him?
Does he know anything about sex at all and does he have any prohibitions or inhibitions about things like sexiness, BJs, etc? In other words is he eager to learn?

I don't know. I think it would be best to keep it simple. Create a romantic atmosphere with candle light and soft music. Lie him on the bed, remove his shoes and socks. Slowly unbutton his shirt and help him out of it. Show him how to kiss romantically using tongue. Kiss his ear and and side of his neck, then slowly work your way down his chest and stomach. Unfasten his pants and help him out of them and his undershorts.

Then removed your own clothes slowly and methodically. Act modest, don't put on a strip tease. Let him look at you.

Then climb up and lie atop him to kiss romantically some more. At some point, you can stroke his cock with your hand while you continue to kiss. Let his hands roam over your body. Move up and let him kiss your breasts.

When he is aroused and ready, you can slide onto him cow girl style or guide him to mount you missionary style.

[Zally]

Don't starfish. Get on him and ride, suck the thing. Make him feel like he doesn't deserve pussy that good. And when he comes like a stallion in a semen extractor. Have him go shower and then you have a shower too. Grab a small bite to eat. Have this drag out about an hour or so. Then it's round two, get him hard and then make him do some work. If you guys are into getting high. I recommend getting high (weed not cocaine lol)

The next day you'll have him love struck like a puppy following a bowl of food.

[Drumlin2001]

As someone who. was a 35yr old virgin I can offer a perspective. However willing he is, he will likely have some nerves and anxieties. You need to give him time to work through each stage. Has he got any experience with intimacy? A kiss?
I had nothing. Thankfully I had met someone who gave me time to work through things at my pace.
You may need to gently nudge him along at times but don't push too hard he may shut down.
He'll make mistakes in a relationship, probably come on too eager, just try to manage expectations and have patience. Communication is very important

[EmmaMary]

If you're supposedly somewhere between 30 and 35, just how old is this so-called male friend of yours?

[Asker]

He’s 32.

[Asker]

Led a very sheltered, religious life. Until recently.

[EmmaMary]

Sounds like it! lol

[bededazzle]

tbh, if you have sex with him, it will be pretty special by itself, but it is very sweet/thoughtful of you! just from being a guy, I don't know your friend in particular, but I mean, I think he will be pretty happy :)

[stratford]

You should expect that he will ejaculate very quickly once he is inside you. Don't laugh or make him feel bad, enjoy the feeling and then help him get ready for round two which you will both enjoy even more.

[hbkfan]

Just don't rush it start with a little foreplay first it màkes the sex more memorable of you don't rush it and go straight home meaning him sticking his baby making into your box right away

[Mangospacho]

“My closest friend wants to marry me and [sic] I like him too”

This is definitely going to be a marriage to last for all time.

[Twalli]

Do it in missionary and be vocal about how it feels.

[Massageman]

Get married first!

[Anonymous]

I Assume he is a virgin in his 30s

[Asker]

Yes, he is

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting and at the same time not an unusual case

[Opinion Owner]

I'm assuming he's not that much of a social person and that has likely contributed to him still being a virgin

[Anonymous]

Marry first, sex later

[Joker_]

buy him Christmas themed socks

[Jmmmfi4]

Suck his dick... of course

[nawtee_me]

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