He broke up with me. He said we will rethink. Now watches my stories of my trip to Paris. Is it wrong if I buy him a gift from there?

[Anonymous]

I used to buy him things from my trips. Now it feels so unnatural to not to do so. I want to buy him something, but I'm afraid he will reject it.

What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend buying him a gift right now, luv. Even though you guys used to do that, things are weird and uncertain since the breakup. Here's why I think holding off is a better move:

- He told you he wants to "rethink" things, so you're not fully back together. A gift could come across as trying too hard or make him feel pressured.

- If he rejects it, that would suck and make things more awkward between you. Better to avoid potential rejection or mixed signals.

- You don't wanna confuse the situation or give him the wrong idea if you're still figuring things out on his end.

- For now just give him space to think without any gestures from you. Let things settle without adding pressure.

I know you miss him and the way things were, but just play it cool right now. Maybe down the line if you guys talk and start getting closer again, then a gift could work. But for now just focus on your trip and living your life. He'll be watching your stories anyway! Let things unfold naturally without forcing anything. It'll work out how it's meant to.

[strateguy632]

unless you want to try again do not give a gift. only if want to reconnect

[Asker]

I want to reconnect but I'm not sure what to do...

[Anonymous]

Buy it...
If he reject it then give to your new guy n told him I bought for you from Paris 😂😂