Shall I test my boyfriend with fake account?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend is so confusing i don’t know if he loves me or not if he cares about me or not, shall i test him with fake account to see if he will cheat or thats wrong? I have tried conversations and everything but he doesn’t reassure me im always confused if he cares about me or not (bcz his actions are so confusing) i don’t know if it will be right to do that

[Hulk_kitty]

Testing your boyfriend with a fake account or attempting to manipulate a situation to see if he will cheat is not a healthy or constructive way to address your concerns. Trust and open communication are crucial elements in a relationship. If you are feeling uncertain about your boyfriend's feelings or actions, consider having an honest and direct conversation with him.

Express your feelings and concerns calmly, and let him know that you are looking for reassurance and clarity. Share specific examples of behaviors that have confused you and ask for his perspective. Open communication is essential for building trust and understanding in a relationship.

Keep in mind that trust is a fundamental aspect of any healthy relationship, and testing someone's loyalty through deceptive means can damage that trust irreparably. It's important to foster an environment where both partners feel safe discussing their feelings and concerns openly.

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[Asker]

Wow thanks

[Hulk_kitty]

No worries, I don't want best answer, cause its not fair on others. But I do suggest you use it yourself, as it is a great tool for every day situations. I use it a lot, its been very helpful to me on most occassions.

[Asker]

I never thought about it thanks a lot.. i will need that often

[Hulk_kitty]

No worries, good luck.

[Unit1]

A loyalty test? I have mixed feelings about this because i understand the perspective of both sides (for or against it).

Its basically a lose-lose situation if you do it regardless the outcome and if you don't then you are gambling with your trust/relationship.

[Anonymous]

Are you spiritual? If so then why aren’t you trusting god to lead your life? I believe that when we think we are losing a good person or important relationship it’s actually god trying to take us out of bad situations and put us in better ones. Thing is you only block your blessings by ignoring your gut feelings and still choosing to stay with the wrong man. To me the solution is hurtful but simple — you need a man who reassures you and he isn’t that person, so leave him. Otherwise no matter how many times you post this, you will never feel content because he isn’t changing anything and you’re ultimately still feeling insecure. It’s just not worth it to me.

[LikesToSuckOlderMen]

Do you have a best friend that's a girl have her text him on her and ask if he wants to have a one night stand?

Most of the time the guy is going to said " Send me a picture."

Have your friend take a picture of her face and titties.

Then if the guy finds her attractive he will said " Yes I am down to hang out, Send me your address."

But if he not attractive to her, He will said " No thank you I have a Girlfriend."

Guys
Will always ask for a picture first.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s not a good idea…

It would be better to talk about your worries to him.

[NathanDavis]

if you don't trust him, then don't be in a relationship with him... and he's not giving you what you need either... so that's two big reasons to reconsider it

[Asker]

I trusted him a lot but im confused recently coz his actions makes it so difficult for me to not be suspicious.. but yeah true i just needed a clear evidence maybe

[NathanDavis]

you're risking though... and that is careless

[electromagnetic]

If you’re having a hard time trusting, maybe this isn’t the relationship for you. Or just outright ask him. Why beat around the bush.
Creating a fake about is so manipulative as you’re literally pressuring him to cave because that what you’re hoping he would do.
If the trust if lost, cut your loss.

[IslaTheWitch]

I would say, start to talk to him.

Share your feelings, ask about his, ask questions, and listen to his answers, even if it's something you don't want to listen to.

Being in a relationship mainly means communication.

[Anonymous]

Look, I've done that before with a boyfriend and he failed the tests. I'd never been able to trust him again. It was torture always wondering if he was cheating. If you go looking for something, you will find evidence. You're better off breaking up if you feel something is off because in my experience your intuition is often right.

[Serenitykayyy]

Men are simple. If he cares about you he will do things that show you that he wants you and wants to keep you in his life. Tell him what bothering you and if he fixes it, great problem solved. If not, then you know where you stand in his life.

[HelpfulWoman]

FUCK NO.
If you have to "test", just end it.

[BCRanger10]

That has "terrible idea" written all over it. If there wasn't mistrust in the relationship before, there most certainly will be after. You'd be better off breaking up with him.

[Anonymous]

if you can't trust your boyfriend you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. A relationship is built off mutual trust so if you to try and "test" him, you're better off without him and he's better off without you.

[Drumlin2001]

No. If you don't trust him you should end it. If you do then talk to him about your concerns. Stop playing childish games

[JacobJordan]

Just end the relationship. If you can't trust him to the point you think you should "test him" the relationship is already over.

[DermalPunch]

I think you shouldn't be in a relationship just yet.

[trellbrown84]

shit testing your boyfriend tells me everything about you.

[rachel776]

[CoolCatMar1]

Don't do that that's insecure

[spartan55]

Yeah, that sounds like a great idea! Go for it.

[sheikalana]

No, you're being childish.

[legalboxers]

ok... but why...

[TiaNour]

Ohh like one of those royalty tests

[spartan55]

LOYALTY... not royalty... 😂 😂 I

[TiaNour]

@spartan55 OH SHIT LMAO

[spartan55]

Lol 😂...

[Luckycharms12]

No you shouldn't can talk to him

[ThebestIndian]

Nope. You shouldn’t