What kind of men stay in long term relationships?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been single a while, and can never seem to find a man that actually wants to stay. Sure it could be me, but what traits are there in the men that enjoy and put up with long term relationships. They can’t be easy for the most part, and eventually even if you love the other person they have to get boring. What makes a man stay, and what characteristics do most men have that commit to long term relationships.

[OlderAndWiser]

The guys who are steady, dependable, and always there are usually not the guys who are flashy, charismatic, or life-of-the-party guys. They may be perceived as boring, ho-hum, not adventurous or daring. If you want to grow old with someone, don't date race car drivers.

[etsylo]

It's sad how you think that eventually the person will get boring. That seems to be true for some people but not everyone else.

I've been in a long term relationship, and I really love my man. He's such a tease, I often call him my favorite bully. He's playful, charismatic, and ambitious. He's super smart and level headed. He's also loving, honest, faithful, considerate, responsible, assertive, understanding, and patient. These traits might help someone in the long run.

I think it really depends the men you're looking for, surround yourself with, bad luck in the field, or just simply that nowadays it's hard finding good people to love and settle with.

[boggboss]

The man wanting somthing long term how can u make the statement surly he will get bored as if that also wouldn't apply to women?

[Asker]

Yes it apply to woman, but I believe woman accept routine and lack of effort more then men do, which is why most men cheat and woman not as much

[boggboss]

Lol where are u even getting thats from most men cheat and women not as much its like your reading from the play book of shit to even say women accept lack of effort more is insane lol 😆

[boggboss]

If these are your opinion going into a relationship why would a guy want to be longterm when u already assume he will probably cheat

[Asker]

I can guess you haven’t been in a long term relationship….

[boggboss]

I'm engaged coming upto 7 years 😅

[Asker]

Ok well come back in another 7 lol then you will have some experience. :D

[boggboss]

And u will still be single asking silly questions I guess

[integrale77]

I'd say nice quiet guys that are often overlooked because they don't stand out.

[HouseMoat]

If they want it.

That's what it comes down to. If they want a long term relationship

[es20490446e]

The men that get and give respect.