What would you think if your boyfriend wants to move in with you because he says he's never lived with a normal person before - just crazy people?

[sage2021]

After a year and a half he pops up out of the clear blue and says "We see the world differently". Then goes on to say he's seen how a normal person lives and he's on his way.
Mind you we waited 3 years to be together again. He called everyday and said he loved me. Even when he was living with me he said he loves me several times a day.
Then one day it's over. He blew my mind. Does this suck or what?

[NathanDavis]

if that is the ONLY reason he has, to do this...

I would be a bit ware of that... he might be the crazy one, lmao... or he is the one involving with crazy people, so...

[sage2021]

@NathanDavus
I am the one that said I am normal.
In the end he was acting crazy! I don't know if it was from drugs or dementia. Because he seemed like he was at the beginning of Dementia.
Anyway I just thought how weird it was that all of a sudden his study of a normal person wasn't what he wanted. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[NathanDavis]

I hope he gets the help he needs... from professionals

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm not convinced if it's a valid reason for a couple to move in together, lol

I would satisfy the observer inside me and not make any decision yet, just wait and observe what would happen :D

[LazerBean]

Obviously he's the common denominator between all those people, so if he's never been with a normal person it's probably his own fault. Sounds like dump material to me

[FunkyMonkee]

Ya never know, maybe he's the one that made them crazy. but, I know what he means, I get a lot of nuts and psychos revolving around me, too.

[LazerBean]

Very true. But regardless of if it's in making them crazy or just him making bad choices, it's a good rule of thumb to avoid people who complain about all the people they chose to be close to.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's his only reason? I don't think I'd let him.

[douride2]

After a year & a half I would tell him just keep on looking & move on.

[Pudsmucker]

That is a super big letdown. Sorry to hear about that. Sounds like he's a jerk right now. Good luck with your future

[Surely]

I probably would tell him if he thought that I was normal. He had better keep looking!

[sage2021]

@Surely
But I am normal silly!
Sage🌹