Bought a house together 2 years ago, no promise or engagement ring and been together for almost 6 years. Still paying him back for slice of pizza, nail clippings from vet for a pet we got together, and gas money for driving me to work when my car was in the shop, plus gifting him some money just cause
These are the details which you should have discussed and decided before buying a house and living together. Do you have any agreement with him on how bills should be divided?
In my home, I pay all of the expenses except her car payment, her car insurance, her phone, and she pays the internet service. I can afford that and she can't.
Most Helpful Opinions
It depends completely on the situation with the house , a holistic approach , this is only stating one side.
If she's using half the stuff, she should be footing half the bill.
On the flip side, another arrangement that sometimes works is if one of you makes 75% of the income, they pay 75% of the bills, and if the other makes 25% of the income, they pay 25% of the bills. But nobody gets a free ride...
If you aren't married, then your money is your and his money is his. This kind of weirdness is exactly why this entire situation shouldn't be done.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
Hell no you shouldn't have to pay anything back to him not being in a committed relationship like your in. It anything I've always took pride in being the man and working so I could pay to get the things she needed or take us out to eat date night etc. He just sounds like a cheap bastard who still is only ultimate looking out for his self sweetheart
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!