Do you also believe we fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time?

[linka_pat307]

I think we fall in love with someone we want to connect with

Yes I do

No its just an infatuation

[Anonymous]

I'm having a hard time finding girls so I never had much success looking. Met my ex on this site by answering a question of hers and we immediately hit off well. The more I got to know her the more we loved each other and she was absolutely fantastic. Unfortunately we couldn't bridge the long distance in time since it was lockdown era but the two years we had together were incredible.

So when we take that into account that I found her randomly on here and she turned out to be a true soul mate I'm very inclined to say yes. But you do need to do your best in causing oppertunities since if I hadn't been here and didn't venture outside of the mens world my daily life is then i'd never have met her.

[Flatmanlewis]

Yes. I was dead set on being single and living my life after an unpleasant breakup. I was having a blast and viewed women as pastimes, not something to invest emotions into. A year later my mind had not changed. Yet, my now wife, came up in my blindside and absolutely derailed those plans despite my not being interested. In fact, she had at least three “DQs” to me. (Dis-Qualifiers) and yet despite my efforts I still fell for her. Been together over a decade and a half now.

[AmeriRiver096]

People might get worked up in the trance of love due to societal expectations, romantic ideals, or a desire for an idealized connection. The notion of finding a perfect match can overshadow the importance of getting to know someone on a deeper level, leading to unrealistic expectations. Exploring connections and understanding individuals can lead to more meaningful and genuine relationships.

[sawno]

I agree but at the same time the latter did lead to the first for me. My last relationship very much felt like that fairy tale where she was my perfect match with a connection beyond belief. Of course you discover that as you are getting to know someone and the first day they merely peak your interest since you get along well and the physical attraction is there but it absolutely can grow into that idealized picture.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I believe we fall in love with the person we choose to fall in love with. Love is a choice in my opinion.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s a bit like standing at the shore and wanting to get your feet wet.

Choosing to slightly and slowly go closer and wet your feet, as the water seems so inviting, beautiful, safe and exciting.

First, you get your feet wet and then you want to go further until you are deep in water, enjoying the swim.

[ohsheeT]

I believe that that can happen yes and I believe in most cases the ones that last is probably one of the best things because it's spontaneous you feel that energy between each other in an instant and that is one of the most beautiful feelings ever I believed it you are more open with that person and you can be more yourself and knowing somebody for quite a while and just being friends.
but that's the way that I want to fall in love is somebody you would never ever think that you would fall in love with and just all the sudden walk into their lives or they walk into your life I think that's pretty hot or can be anyway LOL

[NathanDavis]

nope... I was expecting it, the moment I saw her...

[TenderFantasy]

Love sucks. It doesn't really exist. At least the ones I end up liking keep hurting me and rejecting me I really don't know what I am doing wrong..

[LiamJHayden]

No idea, as I have never fallen in love. I do not make choices for partners based upon emotion, but upon the type of person she is and whether we work well together.

[Altheavas]

Not love at first sight that doesn’t exist…!

Finally got someone who actually says exactly what I would say.
Anyhow?
I need to know if we actually think alike? Depends on how you answer this. 😂

So let’s say somehow, some irrational tingling feelings attraction to someone you just met, and you can’t shake it off as fast as you would want.
What would you do, stick to your rational values of your initial comment, or explore the emotions, let the emotions runs off causes it’s irrational?

(We’re human emotional beings, Emotions are not reliable majority of the time!)

[IslaTheWitch]

No, I believe we make a more or less conscious choice

[Vikkrram]

Not only in love magic happens when you don't have any expectations from anyone

[sheikalana]

I met my now husband at the mist unexpected time of my life.

[kevypatyy7]

I think so too because most times the person you end up falling someone you least expect

[KrakenAttackin]

Many men (not Chad, Tyrone, Pookie, or Ray Ray) will fall in love with a decent women who actually shows interest in him.

[badkarma22]

No, I think love is developed overtime. it's not sudden.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not love, but yes puppy love can be like that

[linka_pat307]

What is puppy love?

[BarryLiverstone]

Puppy love is like infatuation that younger people feel. It’s not the deep and sustaining love that takes time to develop

[linka_pat307]

Oh that one!!!

[Likes2drive]

Yeah it seems like it happens that way

[jujus]

No at least not for me

[Anonymous]

No. That's female adolescent twaddle.

[collie22]

I do