How long does passion and lust last in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I feel like i fall in love with my boyfriend more and more every time, i feel like a fangirl of him.

Im so in love in feels unreal, i dont even like romantic movies anymore my love life is so much better.

we are together for 2,6 years.

why am i feeling like this? I feel so mush passion im not sure thats normal

[dynamicyandere]

Normally, I’d say the infatuation phase lasts about 3-4 months.


Since your relationship has been passionate for over 2 years, that’s a good thing.


It means the passion between you two is being sustained (and/or growing) which is what’s ideal in a relationship.


Whatever you’re doing, you’re doing it right, because love should grow stronger with time, not weaker.


If love or passion is growing weaker in a relationship, it could mean that the couple isn’t taking care of their relationship well.


Passion should be kept alive in a relationship.


Otherwise, the fire may burn out, and then people “fall out of love” because they weren’t taking care of their fire properly.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It can last a lifetime if they are an actual match.

[Asker]

How you know its a match?

[TheSpaceGnome]

You get along so well you never argue or fight, you have lots in common in terms of hobbies, interests, and views, you spend most or all of your time together and enjoy it, and they make you horny.

[Asker]

Do you think it could be known from the beginning? because my boyfriend said he felt attraction to me and didn't really knew why
Even after rejecting him for more than a year, he never gave up
When i asked he said he doesn't know why but felt attraction and felt lile i might like him
Said "i was thinking that you are missing out"
Lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, it takes a few years, usually around 3 or so to know if a person is a match.

[MsBell2018]

Wonderful you have someone you're connected to!
There's a difference between lust & passion, but the 2 can go together. I believe that as long as you keep the communication & closeness together, you should be ok for a good while. Lust will come & go. It may seem very important & #1 priority when you're in your teens & 20's but once you get older, your focus can change. People can be passionate about many things & people & not just sex. As long as he reciprocates the same feeling, you should be ok

[Asker]

I didn't experience any of that as teen or in my 20s... i los my virginity 2 years ago... with him
He doesn't know, im embarrased to say i was in my 30 losing it

[RavenDarkheart]

Sounds like you are with the right guy. (I’m extremely jealous at this point lol.) Like someone else said, I haven’t personally had things last over 4 years, I’ve seen evidence with other people it can go on forever.

[Asker]

I dont know he is the right guy
Bevaue we are total opposite in our persobalities lol

[Finchie40]

No time limit really , and I honestly pray it never ends for you , I wish I could say the same , but sadly through my relationship experiences , it eventually fades and there is really nothing you can do about it , especially when resentments come into play , and if your partner isn’t on the same page as you are that can make it hard as well. It’s sadly just a chance we take when we get into a relationship with someone. Only time will tell.

[Squatting_Slav]

Because he ticks all your boxes just right and is also able to maintain. I'm assuming he's also successful and confident and is only ever increasing? Love and passion lasts when you both grow together constantly. Always trying new things yesterday was different from the last.

Growth is biggest factor in continuing love and passion!

[Asker]

What type of growth?

[Squatting_Slav]

learning new things together disocvering new things in the bedroom tc

[Asker]

How can i know he is happy with me?
He is type of men who doesn't talk about his feelings

[Guido]

The lust phase lasts up to about 6 months then turns to love if all is going well. You are well past the lust phase. The fact that you have this much passion is a good thing. Keep it up.

The way you are going is it will probably last until you have kids and then life's priorities change.

[its_amelia_c]

If it’s the right person and you are willing to work together on your relationship, then it can and should last forever!

[DizzyDesii]

Passion could go on forever. Lust is usually hours, days, weeks, or months

[sheikalana]

I don't know how long it lasts. I hope it lasts forever. I love my husband more and more as the time goes by.

[slatyb]

It can last for decades. It is killed by resentment, which is fed by inconsideration.

[Raaj4you]

As long as you want it to last. It's fine and normal to be passionate lover.

[imogenlaw1]

Why would that be weird

[Asker]

why i feel fall in love again and again

[imogenlaw1]

If you love him you love him that’s it

[Asker]

no, you dont get

[exitseven]

It can last as long as you want it to.

[Danny_dan92]

Depends on the chemistry

[Hotboy_booblover]

6 months max

[Anonymous]

No one cares