How important is it to make time for your boyfriend or husband?

[jennifer_bloom]

I thought that if I upgraded my work ethic and started trying harder to make money, that it would raise my status and make me more attractive to guys who wanted to date me. But then I realized, I did not have time most of the day this Thursday cause I was focused on earning money. So now it's like, is it worse to not work hard, or is it worse to work so hard the guy does not have any opportunity to talk to you?

[Anonymous]

Definitely important, you need to make time every single day to nurture and maintain a relationship. You don’t necessarily have to go out and meet up every single day, but a simple text/phone call half an hour to an hour a day would mean a lot.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Maybe this tip will help u.
Find someone who have same career like u or whose career is similar like u , like always busy type. That kind of person will definitely understand u and appreciate your work. U both will be the great couple.

[PrincelyGlove]

@myloveforuisinfinte do you believe there is someone out there for everyone?
or are there certain types of people that can't develop those types of relationships?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

No I don't believe in soulmates kind of things.
It's not destined. It just a luck factor. I mean u can call your girlfriend/boyfriend, or husband/wife your soulmate.
But at last it's not destined.

[PrincelyGlove]

Do you mind if I ask you for some advice? follow me if its okay?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Why don't u?

[PrincelyGlove]

due to your settings, that you only allow messages from those youve followed
can only do it if you follow me haha :)
up to you! no pressure!

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Sure

[Phoenix98]

Couples should always try to make time for each other it’s important at least in my opinion.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Men do not care about your work ethic or earning potential. Period.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Not everyone is like u. Don't speak for every guy.
There are some guys who love smart, independent, confident , mentally , physically strong women and career oriented women.
These type of guys are actually smart, hardworking, physically strong , and successful in their life too. They want the same from their wife too. So that they can talk about the same thing (since both are career oriented ) and can relate with each other. Tbh I really like these kind of man who loves smart , independent, confident & career oriented women.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

I observed many couples like this. Woah they are the coolest couple I ever saw. No b. s. drama. More interesting thing to do. They are more Bestfriends than husband wife. And if u think they will divorce, naah not gonna happen they are so much loyal to each other , just like my grandmom and grandad, both are doctors.😃🤣they love their profession, as well as their partner.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

@myloveforuisinfinte Really? Then why are those guys cheated on? divorced? or go internationally to seek out new relationships?

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

ROFL I worked in Healthcare and in y
upper admin for decades. Your full of it. Doctors and nurses cheat on a higher level than most other professions. I cannot even relate how many discussions and disciplinary meetings I was required to participate in. You chose the wrong example. I guarantee one or both had their playboys if they were being truly honest.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Really? What.
Well what I observed since my childhood, I told u. There are many happy ending stories like this.
most of the guys like this ends up with a good woman , can't say for everyone. Maybe some not.
But at the end of the day , good people end up with good people and vice versa for manipulative people.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lmao lemme tell u one thing , not everydoctor and nurse are cheater. Lmao I'm myself a medical student. Cheaters can be of any profession , so stop judging people on their professionns
Iny grandparents case,
They were not cheaters, their love was pure, they were loyal to each other till the death, they choose love over anything else.
Their love always give me hope, that love is beautiful if u are with the right person.
U sounds like , someone cheated on u lmao that's why u don't like working, independent women.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

*on the basis of their profession

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Stop judging all the love stories with your dumb point of view.
Here, many of my seniors (doc I mean) end up marrying with each other, and they didn't cheat. Now they are happy with their family.
If someone wants to cheat , they will. And they can be of any profession and any gender. If someone wants to start a family and always stay stays loyal to each other, they will.
Coz it depends upon a person. Be open-minded first.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

*always want to stay loyal

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

@myloveforuisinfinte If your going into healthcare you will learn for yourself. There are numerous studies that have been completed that show anywhere from 20 to 30 percent of healthworkers are involved in infidelity on some level and that 80 percent of those are physicians.

Most of the physicians I have even met have kept sugar babies on their payrolls from working in multiple acute care hospital settings. One of the last disciplinary meetings I was required to attend was for a Cardiac Surgeon whose wife came into the facility and posted pictures all over the walls of him with his girlfriends. Three of those he got pregnant at the same time included a surgical tech, a PACU nurse and an ICU CV nurse who were in those pictures.

Sorry but if your grand parents were in front of me and spouted that BS I would call them a liar to their faces.

There is a reason why the divorce rate is over 80 precent. That pure love you speak of doesn't exist and as you grow older you will find out for yourself.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Thank god , here in my country divorce rate are not that high. Lmao
Maybe cheating is casual in your country not in my country lmaooo.
Your reports which u are talking about, are not relatable here.
That was some 80s or 90s love. Not every country is same.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

@myloveforuisinfinte Which country? I'll find the report. Doesn't matter. The only thing another country might influence is who they agree to marry. Some still stick to a caste system which would influence who they choose to marry for social status and appearances.

You go ask your grandparents and see how fast they get quiet and start to look uncomfortable about the conversation.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Your whole pov is b. s bruh. U sounds like a guy someone cheated on u multiple times. lmao. so stop with your bullshit

[sawno]

"started trying harder to make money, that it would raise my status and make me more attractive to guys who wanted to date me" this is the wrong approach. Men can do that for themselves and don't mind being sole provider. We seek a woman who can do the things we aren't doing.

I'd 100% much rather have a girl excited to see me in the evening, who took great care of the kids, our social connections and the house while I worked my work day than to have a girl come home exhausted from work doing the exact same thing for the family I was already providing.

The more you focus on the things that attract woman to men, the less time you are focusing on what attracts men to a woman. You are always very bible driven and christian, perhaps take some inspiration from the traditional christian dynamic to attract a christian man.

[TacosRAwesome]

It's quite important. Otherwise, just get a friend's with benefits or something of that sort.

[Jamie05rhs]

You should always make time for people. That doesn't mean that your day cannot still be structured. Set aside one hour in the evening to chat with potential romantic partners.

[Surely]

If you don’t make time for a SO. Then some will stray to find someone else that will!

[RedInnocent68]

Being in a relationship is different from getting into a relationship.

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

Not that important since real men are entertained looking at ceilings and walls 🗿