The sad thing about addiction is that, a lot of the times, a person who is addicted develops a sort of tunnel vision. All they can think about is chasing that next high, and they behave erratically towards anyone who stands in between them and that next high. You can have sex with him if you want to, but it’s not going to fix things. He’s still going to chase that next high, and you’re going to be miserable watching him do it. This is not the sort of situation you should be raising your children with, so I highly suggest that you leave.
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Yo girl, don't let that dude make you feel bad! You ain't done nothing wrong here. His addiction prob is his own mess to sort out, ya feel me?
Seems like he just tryna guilt trip and manipulate you into getting what he wants. Classic addict behavior from what I heard. But you gotta take care of yourself and the kids first.
Don't fall for the pity party - man gotta show real change with his actions before he earns your trust again. Words cheap as hell.
And his ass blamin the no sex for his prob? Laaaame. Learn to deal without that crutch guy. Plus you know why it ain't happening - his disrespect in the past.
You done all you can sis, keep it pushing. Focus on your new start without him draggin you down. He gotta want it for himself to get better. You gotta worry bout you and them kids!
You got this fam, don't let no man stress your vibe. Better days ahead, I'm here if you ever need to vent 💯
You need to get away from him. I am sorry to hear that but why should be around him? Can you move out?
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Don't end relationship just have someone secretly for sex.
My God, lady, is he the father of my children? That man is your husband.
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