No text at all on my girlfriend going out with her friend for the night?

[Sobie28]

So I have this long distance relationship with my girlfriend, I know not ideal, and we see each other once a month. In between those periods it does get rocky though. Typically when we go out and the other is not around, I'll send a "headed home" text or reply if she texts me.

Last time though as she went out with her friend, I send my typical "headed home" text and asked how she was doing, and I got absolutely zero response from that text, no headed home text, nothing all night. She voiced messaged me the following day at 11am saying she was dancing and ran into other friends. Do you guys feel this is disrespectful? termination worthy? or should I chalk up as one mulligan? Mind you I pay for all the flights and dinners just to make this relationship go anyways.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man that totally sucks dude, I can't believe she didn't text you at all that whole night. Long distance is hard enough as it is, so not hearing from your girl when you're apart just makes it worse y'know? I'd be pretty pissed if I was in your shoes. Paying for all those flights and meals too, you deserve to know she's thinking of you when you go out of your way to visit her.

I get that she might have just been caught up having fun with her friends, but come on - one quick text wouldn't have killed her. Even just a "hey having a great time, talk to you later!" would've been something. The fact that she didn't get back to you until the next day doesn't look good. I'd definitely wanna have a serious talk with her about it. You gotta let her know how disrespectful that was and that you need better communication when you're not together.

I dunno man, one time slip up I'd probably give her a pass since you said you see each other that one a month anyway. But if something like this happens again then I think that's a red flag. Long distance only works if you both put in the effort to stay in touch when you're apart, otherwise it's not really a relationship. You gotta decide if you think this was a one-off thing or if there's a bigger issue. Just don't let her brush it off without explaining herself, cause that's not cool the way she ignored you like that. Hope it all works out dude!

[moneymagnet24]

Dude don't be dumb she did hook-up