I been in a long distance relationship with someone online who lives in the same state as me, except he lives about 6 hours away from me. He has always seemed like he was close to his family, talking about them, mentioning them, but when it came to me it was like I didn't exist. He didn't mention me to them, and would hide our phone calls away from them, but I'd be able to hear their whole conversation. He would MUTE my voice. They didn't seem too bad just religious like crazy. He says he didn't want them in our business because they wouldn't respect our boundaries, be in our business, at first he said his parents were judgmental and I wouldn't like them, now he's saying his parents are religious and would force me to pray, and stuff and he knows I don't like that. Thing is he is 37 and I feel he should be able to have his own life and set firm boundaries in order to protect his relationship but instead of doing that, they get their way and I'm just an outsider? that's what it feels like. So.. like I know him and his sister are close and he shares a lot with her, They are in a band together. I seen they were performing in Dec, I posted a comment on there asking if he was there, and mentioned to her I was his girlfriend and knew he was the drummer in the band. She left my comment sitting there, not saying anything and i wrote that 6 weeks ago, I had a couple of my supporters go and "like my comment" and she still didn't respond. So last night I got mad, and said a few things to her, and went overboard but I'm at a point I don't care if I piss anyone off. The guy is a manipulator and gaslighter and always treated me bad in the relationship and I feel he's telling his sister I'm just a stalker and to ignore me and she is obeying him. I had enough and had to make myself, I'm not trying to be a secret anymore, and yeah i called her the B word and told her if she doesn't want it public to talk to me privately. Still she said nothing.
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What do you think, am I wrong LONG POST?
