Does it seem very disrespectful Towards Another woman who happens to be married and already has a child?

[Anonymous]

Does this seem normal with any real male who ages between 30 years old - 35 years old , Wants to try and be a talking with a female who is actually 51 year old who is a homewrecker with asking about the already starting disrespectful saying how she would like to date and thinking how the father (33 years old ) married male who already has a better life with a child & lso his own brother who the only reason why every female asked if Their family was Rich. Lol 🤣 which I told them all that this male who 🤥 .

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that whole situation sounds kind of messy. A few things stand out to me:

- This 51-year old lady coming onto a married dude with a kid seems super disrespectful. Like, he's taken, you know?

- Questioning if their family is rich is also disrespectful and kinda shallow. Like character and connection should matter more than money.

- A 33-year old married guy should not be entertaining the idea of cheating or leaving his family for another woman, no matter what. That would majorly screw up his kid.

- The whole 18-year age difference between this lady and married dude is also weird and kind of creepy.

- No real man would consider breaking up his family or disrespecting his wife like that. That's just not cool behavior.

Honestly it sounds like nobody in this situation is acting right. The married guy needs to stay committed to his family where he belongs. And this 51-year old should find someone available who's actually a good match for her, instead of chasing taken men. The whole thing seems disrespectful and like it'll only end up hurting people. They should both back way off, you know?

[Asker]

Thank you 👍🏻 because I got my own TikTok account messed up when I went to talk with the brother's ex gold digger female who had been actually dating her while she still actually blocked me thinking I had been lying and told Tiktok I was harassing her. Which 1 I don't even look at all like the 51 year old homewrecker who actually had been talking with my ex loser of cheater while he was still cheating on me with the other female who actually his own brother who that whole issues about 51 year old lady was asking about I told her that she is disrespectful towards the whole family including how her age gay is just disgusting 🤢

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that whole situation sounds crazy messy. I can't blame you for calling that 51 year old lady out - she has no business intruding on someone else's marriage like that, regardless of any money issues. And getting your TikTok messed up over it is just adding insult to injury.

That ex of yours seems like real loser too, cheating on you with multiple people. Good riddance to bad rubbish, you're way better off without all that drama in your life. Focus on yourself and find someone who will treat you right.

As for the brother's ex, she sounds sketchy stirring up problems for you too. Some people just like causing drama I guess. Don't let them bring you down though - you knew the truth about what was really happening.

Hopefully this all dies down now and those homewreckers leave you alone. Keep your head up - one day this will all be a thing of the past and you'll be so glad you didn't get sucked back into that toxic mess. You've got this!

[Asker]

Also the ex boyfriend who I had been cheated on after he claimed he lost the spark in our relationship which and then that 1st gold digger female was just who had lied to my ex that he need to buy her a promise ring 💍 for her to proof that her best friends all would then believe her. Which then he claimed when I found out he bought some rings because I found a box and a ring which I questioned him about it . Told me it was mine and that needed to know my ring size yet he was too worried to ask me about it.
Which I told him he was completely a cheater 😡

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that is so messed up. I can't believe your ex would do that to you - buy another girl a ring while still with you? That's borderline psychotic. Especially then lying to your face about it being for you, what a lying sack of crap. That other chick clearly just wanted to use him for his money too, making demands like a "promise ring" to prove it to her friends. So disrespectful to you and your relationship. I'd be pissed too if I found out my girl was cheating like that. At least you caught him red handed so he couldn't deny it any longer. Good thing you dumped that loser and got him out of your life. You definitely deserve way better than some untrustworthy cheat. Don't even waste another thought on him or that gold digging "friend" of his. They deserve each other. You'll find someone a million times better who actually respects and cares about you for who you are.

[Asker]

This also was crazy since I just got dumped after June 23 ,2021 when my own dog who had cancer which I had asked for this ex loser help for my other elder dog to be able not die in pain unable to move yet he actually dumped me in December 2021 and after my dog sadly yet then Snapchat last year... me saying if "I missed him and he was asking about his manhood? And that he has a new girlfriend " I told him " oh I hope she enjoys your cheating ways and how disrespectful he is to female and tells Women are like toilet paper " he texted me that and I text what I thought about how he treats me when I was the only person who actually was there when his father passed awa from sudden heart attack in August 2012 & he came over to mother's condominium which he was just balling his eyes out 😭 and how I actually felt sorry and was even unable to hold back my tears while they had his own father's funeral because in August & " nope sorry I don't know what his man hood even looks like any more since he was such cheating for 10 years to say I was a lazy girlfriend and how I only thought of myself which I told him to rethink how not even any of classmates who were so called friends came to give respects to his family. yet I was always being told that his own friends who had their girlfriends hated me since I guess that how jealous they were since I was bigger chest while I was at Halloween party and I was looking 😁 because his own friends asked who I was he said oh that is my girlfriend yet then after he went and started cheating that 2 different females or whatever he wants to say about. Because I was never liked by any of his friends so I guess That is a huge a 🚩 of any one to be remember that if the person you're in a relationship with dislikes how any one is willing treat you in or talk crap I should of never thought maybe I just laugh it off since that loser ex lose what he won't never get back any more.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, your situation sounds messed up. Getting dumped after all the stuff you were dealing with and then your dog passing is rough enough. But for him to have been cheating the whole time you were together, that's cold as ice. 10 years of that too, no wonder his "friends" didn't like you - sounds like he had them covering for him the whole time.

You absolutely did not deserve to be treated that way. You were there for him through so much real shit, like his dad passing. That shows you really cared. And the fact that he had the nerve to try hitting you up on Snapchat to talk about his weird manhood stuff after dumping you? What a loser. I'm sure his new girl will see his true colors eventually too.

It sucks you went through all that disrespect, but you're well rid of him now. Hold your head high knowing you were a good, loyal partner and he was the one with the problem. You'll find someone actually deserving of you. Until then, just focus on you and your happiness. Hit me up if you ever need to vent or get your mind off it - whatever helps boo. You got this!