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Some of these are deal breakers. But others are more complicated.
Telling a woman about your weakness/insecurities isn’t bad if you can tell her how you persevered and/or have a solid game plan to get better. Because masculine energy is about problem solving. But telling a woman “I don’t know what to do and I’m scared” will unfortunately lead to her rejecting you as a real man. Especially if you do it too often. Women expect men to show competence and confidence when facing adversity.
But sometimes men really do feel hopeless and scared in certain life scenarios. When that happens he needs to keep that under the lid and discreetly seek out help about what to do. And that help can be a best friend, counselor, etc. but not the woman. It’s in his best interest to be quiet about in public and around his love interest.
The real insidious part about all this is that many women keep on saying that “they like it when guys share their feelings”. Ah no they don’t. Not most of them. The ugly truth is they do not “like” it. At all.
Women just feel relieved that men share the same insecurities they do. They get frustrated and envious that men seemingly have better emotional self control than they do. It’s intimating. So an emotional guy is “relatable” to her. But relief is not the same thing as attraction.
Women typically friend zone men who show their emotions on their sleeves. And they are confident about it too. Because they literally see the man as another woman. The only exception to this are very controlling women with masculine tendencies. They like guys who are open about their insecurities because they figure they will get to wear the pants in the relationship.
-Put her on a pedestal: never
-Tell her all your problems: some problems maybe if you were dating for enough time
-Take her back if she cheats: absolutly never never never
-Tell her all your weaknesses: can actually be a good strategy, if you give away a couple of weaknesses and stand behind them it will be you are confident enough to not be ashamed of your weaknesses and still strong even with them, no one likes a narcisstic kid
-Sacrifice your ambitions for her: don't you dare
-Compromise your values for her: again not even think about it
-Make her the meaning of your life: if you wanna make life much more misearable and empty than it already is, by allmeans be my guest.
i don't think you should do any of these with a person, man or woman - maybe not telling your weaknesses or problems but everything else
You know, you could say those things about men too.
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How about:
• Step up onto the pedestal with her?
• Ask her if she would want to help with your problems.
• Yeah.. dislike cheating. Firm no.
• Ask if she will help strengthen your weaknesses
• See if she can strengthen your ambitions
• She must naturally share your values or you wouldn't click well enough for a strong relationship. Those warning signs would be early on.
• Nothing wrong with being so attached she is a big meaning of your life.
Relationships are hard. They aren't supposed to be easy. You could even say they would be boring if they were. But its give and take. You're mostly talking about her taking from you.. when in a mature functioning relationship it's more sharing your dreams and values.
Hmm. I tell my wife most of my problems because she will have a different approach that may result in an answer I wasn't thinking of. Can't tell her everything though. Security clearance and what not. She knows my weaknesses. I do put her on a pedestal as she treats me the same. The rest though definitely true. The 3 listed though you need a rare and special woman for that and in the US you would have an easier time finding a unicorn
u said not make her meaning of ur life YET all ur comments n posts about women
doesn't that make em the meaning of ur life even if not positively? u talk waaay tooo much about women n focus more than needed on em so basically they r all u got going in ur mind most of time
I suggest u work on ur past traumas cuz u r stuck buddy
Sounds like another scaredy incel afraid a girl will leave him so he’s gotta act all “big” and threatening to keep her submissive and fearful. I mean she’s “his woman”, like a caveman dragging a woman by her hair like she’s a piece of property.
So true. Making a woman the center of your life is a sure way for her to take you for granted and rapidly lose respect for you.
It's too bad modern women don't realize that a good man will move mountains for a good woman.
Besides making her the meaning of your life, in a way that she does the same is basically cucking out for the pussy. NEVER waste your time with fake ass women that want control. I got 7 words for ya.. Tell them bitches to go fuck themselves!
Seems like if you are paranoid about those things happening you should just do the women of the world a favor and stay single. Although, the outward signs of such paranoia would probably take care of that for you..
u you're not man enough to tell actual men what they should or could, wouldn't do... lol
If you want to live a lonely life forever then, yes I agree.
If you don't want to live a lonely life, you have to take chances, treat a woman as she wants to be treated and make sacrifices for love.
Only disagree with point 2 and 4 rest are pretty solid
I agree you can't do that with a partner because you will only get hurt.
I agree with you completely. You should never show all of your vulnerable points to somebody unless you could trust them with a knife at your throat.
No that’s pretty much anybody, romantic relationship, employer or friend.
I wonder how many on here have sacrificed one or all these for their job?
Mostly agree. Like she won't respect you if you take her back after cheating unless if children are involved, then regaining respect is on the table.
I vehemently disagree with everything except, 'tell her about all your problems'
Disagree except the cheating, sacrificing ambition, compromising your values - although not necessarily a bad thing either the last 2. Change can be good depending.
If he doesn’t even want to share his problems maybe he should be single lmao
And get a joint checking account
Agreed completely.
this goes the same for men.
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