How many times would you call your partner or s/o in a day to know how he/she is doing?

[Elena_Stewart]

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My wife and I never do this. When I'm away on overseas business trips, we do it but maybe once only every 1-3 days.

Our remote communication style is similar to love letters from the past. We write very long-winded messages to each other that resemble old school handwritten letters but only respond to each other once every few days or more.

When we were just dating, we met each other almost every day after work so it seemed pointless to spend a lot of time talking on the phone together. We just called each other to arrange where to meet.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

We're both extremely independent types of people. We love each other but not the type of couple that needs to talk on the phone every moment when we're apart. We do let each other know as a heads-up if we're arriving home late or something like that. Yet we don't check up on each other; we don't need to since we let each other know if something is wrong.

[NathanDavis]

I guess... before and after, they're done doing whatever they're doing apart

but, I usually live with my partners and we do a lot together... and then we only keep each other updated, so I don't have to constantly ask... they do tell me in advance, and I the same

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex used to call me everyday for at least 1 hour. Up to 3 hours some days

He basically could not go over a day without telling me about all he did.

I knew everything he was up to and didn’t need to worry much.

[Elena_Stewart]

Maybe nice memories then🙂

[LavLavLuv]

We just text

[HawkPerception]

In my past relationships, I've always been communicative and talked to them frequently throughout the day whenever I get a chance. I'm a communicative guy, but I also love my space and just having time to myself to be in my own headspace and zen.

[Drumlin2001]

We live together so don't really call or text each other a lot. Bit if I'm working in office I usually check. in at some point in day. If we're ever apart we would usually swap messages in morning and a video call at some point in evening if possible.

[RebelinSteel]

It varies greatly, if she’s busy once or twice, if I’m busy once or twice. Both not busy then quiet a few times if we are chatting, but I never expect an instantaneous response.

[Phoenix98]

Probably just give her a short call on lunch break then call her again after work was done if we didn't live together.

But no more then that as I'm not really on my phone while at work.

[DoggyDude]

Very much depends, but I wouldn't like to go more than a week without having heard from them.

[Nikki1989]

We call each other once a day when we are working.

[andreasderjuengere]

We message a few times a day.
Rarely anything of importance.
It's more like well meaning gestures.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I wouldn't exceed more than once. I believe in contacting people if you have something meaningful to say, not just to brother them with nonsense all through their day.

[lilBigPotato]

Once, assuming we will not see each other anyway later in the day

[noohair]

When I was young, the phone was attached to the wall.

[TacosRAwesome]

Around twice a day. I trust that he's alive otherwise.

[Jennz6]

When he is gone too long I call 📞 otherwise we will text constantly

[Yannae]

We just continue to talk throughout the whole day. I know how she's doing.

[Squatting_Slav]

Probaby almost never, unless they were unwell, in some trouble etc

[laly520]

when he was away

we would have an on going call for 8 hours or so

[slatyb]

Zero. I text them some days just hearts.

[Smashingdoozy]

Uh like once at the end of the day maybe

[Billlewis]

That's always her decision.

[Likes2drive]

Once or twice if I’m not seeing them

[JayBones]

Call, never, text plenty.

[dudeinohio]

Zero

[TonyMetal___86]

It depends