I'm not happy with my boyfriend anymore?

[Anonymous]

Recently I have noticed that my relationship with my boyfriend is lacking something. We don't do things together like before. I believe both our feelings have gone worse. I mean that we don't show affection towards each other like before, we talk also but not like before. We have been together just 1 year. I have stress a lot and he says he will support me whatever comes but I'm not happy. What to do?

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I don’t want to say for certain that your relationship has run its course and you should break up, but it does sound like you’ve both become comfortable. And sometimes comfort can be boring. He doesn’t kiss you the way he used to? Then kiss him. He doesn’t take you out on dates? Take him on a date. Romance him. Try something new and exciting to reignite the passion. If you still want to be with him, show him that you are still interested in him. Hopefully he’ll get the hint and reciprocate.

Before I forget; have you talked with him about how you’re feeling?

[Nick_Halden]

Relationships take work. If you want to return back to that spontaneous exciting phase where your continually discovering more about who each other is becoming you'll have to put effort in. But thinks aren't always going to be sunrises and butterflies, that's when commitment comes in. If you two love each other, have a deep connection, make each other better, maybe you should stick it out. But if there are underlying reasons that he isn't the one, reasons that you have suppressed from infatuation, perhaps it's time to re-evaluate before you waste more time.

But just because you are not feeling that spark, don't make rash decisions purely off of emotions which are ficcle. Communicate with your boyfriend about what your going through, how he responds might give you your answer.

[Nick_Halden]

I wrote this on my phone and now wish I could correct the horrible grammar above lol.

[HouseMoat]

You miss that "honeymoon phase" when everything was "new", right?

Yeah, it happens. It happens when you're in a rut, and aren't doing NEW things

[Becky316]

I can't say for certain but it may be time to break up. Only you can know for sure.

[Slapmynuts]

Trade him in for a newer model! Jk!🤪 You need to tell him how you feel even if it hurts him or you will never be happy! It's being fair to the both of you!😁

[ÖmerrCan]

Then break up with him