I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t enjoy being with me anymore?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 years. it hasn’t always been easy. most of our problems stems from social media. he used to follow bikini girls, like their pictures and DM a handful of them complimenting them. i was so upset and so heart broken that i put up a wall as soon as i found out. i stopped being nice to him and started giving him a hard time about everything and attitude towards him too. i asked him why he did it and he said he didn’t know who he had in front of him, that he’s sorry, and he’s going to change and not do it again. i want to believe him but I don't know if i should. bc when i did trust and believed him, i got lied to and said he’s not doing anything. anyway, i’m noticing that he’s not enjoying my company as much as he used to. he’s also an angry drunk and is horrible to deal with. when he gets drunk i’ll give him a hard time the next day. so little by little i’m noticing he doesn’t want to deal with me anymore. it kinda makes me sad, however, i also hated that he did all this to me.

[Unusualq26]

Hmm tbh it sounds fixable but you need to decide weather u actually want to fix it or not. It sounds like you still have mix feeling which is fair but while your in the middle ground it be hard to make any repairs. U can leave and try again. Or u can fully commit to fix it. If need more advice I can probably help u fix his mood super quickly but no point if you don't want to. Of you don't don't feel bad. What happen is a perfectly valid dealbraker

[spartan55]

You've already posted about this once, so I'm wondering why you need to again?
You either stay and commit to the relationship and do away with the bitchiness, or get rid of him. If you stay, set boundaries with your boyfriend and stick to them. The way you wrote it, he did it and apologized yet you are still holding a grudge. That does you, him, and your relationship a disservice.

[boggboss]

What answer are u looking for u 2 clearly have problems and are not addressing then so ofc the relationship with fade away

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I agree he doesn’t enjoy it like he used to