Should guys be invited to baby showers?

[SamIam96]

No. Baby showers are for the mom and her girl friends.

Dude, this is the 21st century guys and girls both go.

I don't know, just show me the results.

[Purpleronnie]

I’d honestly be shocked if any guy as the other half of a relationship wanted to go to a baby shower but sure if he wanted to and the mothers to be agreed then why not but I have a feeling this would have great impact on the dynamics of the event and may even cause issue.

[handsomelad70]

I tend to think baby showers should be girls-only.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Invited or not. I'd sooner pluck my eye brows out with a pair of mole grip pliers than go to one!

[WhitneySnow]

Sure! Break free of traditional gender roles. It’s not like they give the mom to be a vibrator or anything she would be embarrassed about letting a guy see.

[DizzyDesii]

Its dumb to give her a vibrator if her sex life appears to be good since she's pregnant

[WhitneySnow]

@DizzyDesii exactly! That’s why I said they wouldn’t give it to her at the baby shower.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh i thought that was sarcasm cause a lot would still do it at like a bach party

[WhitneySnow]

@DizzyDesii that’s true lol. But I didn’t think they’d do it at a baby shower. But maybe I was wrong…

[laly520]

dont think they would enjoy being there

[Apple1996]

Yeah I had mostly guys at my baby shower

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

I've been to a few baby showers, but the novelty wears off after the first and you will look for excuses to leave early. I dont think down on anyone going, but it takes a special type of person to go to that kind of function.

[CharlotteNoivern]

You introduce me to a guy who wants to be in a room full of women gashing over a baby

[jahaims]

A baby shower takes place prior to birth.

[Still-alive]

sounds like fun to me lol. i'd gush over a baby too :P

[electromagnetic]

I never understood why guys couldn’t attend. It’s a party to celebrate birth.

[Kelly6]

@electromagnetic
Neither did I , so I always invite guys too at baby shower

[Peridot25]

It’s more of a woman thing because of how gushy women can get, you know 😂 But, if a man wants to join, he’s more than welcome to attend.

[Anonymous]

Guys should make a baby shower and invite their guy friends.

Guys don’t go to the mom’s baby showers. Women don’t go to the dad’s baby showers.
These are to celebrate parenthood coming and play riddles and cute games associated with parenthood in a mature and non sexual way.

[RebelinSteel]

Nope I’ve been to one in part and it was not a place for guys.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I can't see why guys can't go with their lady.

[RSav4013]

I don't care about the inclusivity aspect of it. I would want to invite guys to my shower because that means more people can get more things to help support me and my baby to be.

[lightbulb27]

not really... but if it's a big open party and the guys are sharing $ and the food is good... yes.

[blueonblack22]

Who cares? Nothing wrong with going to one if you want to but it shouldn’t be mandatory either. No judgment either way.

[Smashingdoozy]

Yeah anyone can go. Whomever you want to invite you should invite

[Peridot25]

I mean, that’s their choice. Yeah it’s mostly women but if he wants to go, why not? 🤷‍♀️

[A_Bell]

No. They don't want to be there, don't obligate them unless they ask to be included.

[DizzyDesii]

Yes. Its about the baby/pregnancy but too many women make it about gift giving and gossip

[DizzyDesii]

I intend to throw a co-ed bach party too

[laurieluvsit]

Why would you want to ruin a perfectly good baby shower? ... lol

... just kidding

[XXblack88]

My sister and her guy had guy at their baby shower. They were mostly family

[Kelly6]

Yes

i invite guys at baby shower all the time

[msc545]

Of course we should be invited. We are half-responsible for creating the baby.

[Overandunder89]

Makes no difference to me. I'm not interested in going to anything like that.

[jshm2]

Why? It's a pathetic money grab. Who goes isn't important, what they bring, is.