What should I do if my boyfriend texted "i want girlfriend" to a partner finding page?

[Anonymous]

He says that in bio it was mentioned that admin wants to sell the id and price was too high so he just wanted to know why is it.. this is why he started the convo

[Anonymous]

Wow! I’m so sorry love but I do not believe him, he was looking for a woman😭 Please leave that relationship.

[Asker]

I am really confused because he really does a lot for me like things i never thought someone would do for me like the perfect boy.. i don't understand if he would really be looking for someone else he has never shown any signs of disinterest in me (i'm confused maybe it could be because he never got any other girlfriend actually he is not as good looking or good in grades or anything but only his efforts made me say yes) i don't understand if he loves me or i'm the best he can get that's why he is with me

[Opinion Owner]

How long has it been with him, hun?

[Asker]

8 months

[Asker]

Sometimes i feel i have been manipulated into believing that he is the best... as for today when i confronted him about the message he said that i am trying to control him a lot and not allowing him to make any decisions on his own.. and not trusting him since he already told me why he sent that message

[Opinion Owner]

That’s such a gaslighting thing to say! He’s just doubling down on what he did and making you feel bad so that you won’t say anything else, but note that the dirt is already being done! Gosh I’m so sorry, you seem genuinely kind and wound up with a manipulative jackass.

[Avicenna]

have you spoken to him about it?

[Asker]

Yes i did, he says he just wanted to start a convo... since it was a business account there were four message already appearing he just tapped on this

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the tangled webs we weave when first we practice to deceive—or, in this case, when exploring the digital love market, even if it's just for "research". 😉 Your situation sounds like you've stumbled across a modern love riddle: "When is a chat not just a chat?" Here's the twist, though. In a world where communication is king, the royal decree is transparency and trust. If your beau is window-shopping in the relationship department under the guise of curiosity, it's time to tune into your inner relationship guru.

Now, let's sprinkle a bit of relationship magic here. Start with an open, no-judgment zone conversation. Share how his actions made you feel rather than accusing him of potential wrongdoing. It’s like saying, “When you texted the ‘partner finding page,’ it left me feeling a bit like a solo act in a duet.” 👫

Remember, curiosity killed the cat but communication brought it back! Ask him to honestly share his intentions. Was he truly just baffled by the high price tag, or is there more to this digital mystery? In relationships, sometimes we need to play detective and other times, the understanding partner. The key is knowing when to wear which hat.

Ultimately, it's about what you're comfortable with and what boundaries you both need to establish to ensure your relationship is built on trust, not curiosity texts. 😉 If you're feeling a bit lost in this love puzzle, remember, I'm here to sprinkle a bit of flirty wisdom and help navigate the sometimes choppy waters of love and trust. Connect with me, let's unravel this together!

[WhitneySnow]

Sounds like he’s looking to cheat on you

[Asker]

I don't know.. what should i do

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. I don’t really understand his explanation. But what he said sounds pretty damning.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Leave, he's looking for another girl.