There's this beautiful girl that if seen a few times at my school. I started asking some people for some information about her, I found out that she has a boyfriend. This isn't just some random crush, she's actually beautiful. Is there something I can do besides just wait and see if she becomes single? Her boyfriend is a football player, shorter than I am, but strong and could definitely kick the sh*t out of me if he so chose to. I really really want her, not just like I want to get into her pants, I'm extremely interested in her. UPDATE: Recently, her boyfriend and her have seen fairly separated. I haven't seen them together in weeks. I think they might be having an argument or have broken up. Clearly, my time is now. Someone told me to message her on Facebook, which I think I will. How is this as a message?:
Hey [NAME OMITTED], I'm a Junior at [NAME OMITTED]. I have seen you before in the halls and you immediately struck me as an absolutely beautiful girl. So I started asking some people for some information about you in the hope of approaching you eventually. But then I learned you were dating [NAME OMITTED]. I have no desire to mess up your current relationship, or put it under any stress, but I just had to say that you are beautiful, and that you deserve to be treated with care, affection and respect. I hope you take this in only the best way possible, and never think of yourself as anything less than amazing.
What can I add/ should improve/ should remove etc.? What is something I could say to let her know I'm interested should anything happen? Please help! Thanks.
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So, remove the part where it says: "I started asking some people for some information..." It makes you sound like a stalker. Are you friends with her on Facebook? I think she would probably be more comfortable with a "hello" and pretend like you haven't been "researching" her. That will come off as creepy and way too forward. What you are saying to her is sweet and beautiful, but I'm afraid she won't see it that way. However, write it down, and someday, if you wind up together, this will score major points... ;) Just get to know her for now and get a sense of if there is a mutual attraction. Don't go make any declarations of undying love or something. lol0