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How long was your longest relationship (and why did you split up)?

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  • OlderAndWiser u
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    I met Debby in 1985, married in 1987, and divorced in 2004. When I met her, she was working full-time, raising two teens, and doing volunteer work. After we married, she was diagnosed with a medical condition, became addicted to prescription drugs, had psychotic episodes, became violent towards me, and she filed for divorce after I got a domestic violence injunction against her.

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  • Chevy1_kb
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    My relationship with my ex lasted 3 years but cheated on me for 2 years with two girls and one night stands one remained his girlfriend and then he got a new one and so now he has two girlfriend's and sexting other girls online and sleeping with me sometimes he's a scum bag I don't love him I hate him more than I like him for what he done to me we are mostly just friends with benifits nothing else my love for him won't ever come back no matter how many times I spend with him he's no my type of boyfriend no way he's a cheating prick

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  • Lara_Croft
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    about 10 months, it's a long story-he was agnostic and i was christian among other things. I was young and naive and didn't think my parents understood love when they adviced me as if they hadn't been there and done that before haha.

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  • AviatorTom
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    We were married for 20+ years. After the kids grew up and left the nest, we realized we really didn't have much in common (we originally married to raise a family), and we amicably divorced. Turned out to be good for both of us... she is remarried and I am in a long-tern relationship with my SO.

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  • Oh, diving right into the deep end, are we? Well, my longest relationship is actually with my lovely wife, and it's still going strong! Before her, my longest was a high school sweetheart situation that lasted a couple of years. We split because, well, growing up means growing apart sometimes. We were heading in different directions with our lives, careers, and educations. It was one of those bittersweet moments where you realize love isn't always enough to keep things together. But hey, it taught me a lot about love, loss, and the art of moving on, lessons I get to share in my work today! 💔➡️💪

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  • GuyAnswersGirls123
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    Around 17 years now with my wife, 14 years in marriage. We haven't split up yet and really don't think we ever will. We get along extremely well and I've definitely reached the stage where I can't imagine growing old without her, and I think she's the same.

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    • overthinkergirl
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      so cool!! happy foru both!!:))

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    • GuyAnswersGirls123
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      Thank you very much! 🤝

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    • DreamCrescent
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      answer of the year. you and your wife are lucky people

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  • Night_Descends
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    2 years. She got too jealous and controlling that she didn't want me to go out with my friends, she'd become mad at me if any girl sent me a follow request on social media without even following her. Even though I wasn't close to any other girl, she'd keep on alleging me of cheating and then started crying about her behaviour even I proved my innocence every time. Became more of a headache than relationship so I thought it's best to end it.

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    • overthinkergirl
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      wow okay then i’m happy that the controlling stopped with break up! i bet u didn’t feel free and had no time o lr space for yourself!

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  • Sameone
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    3 years and 7 months to be exactly 11 day.

    She was my first girlfriend and first love in my life. And we broke up because her family. ( Now she is going to married a business man in Australia).
    If i get chance i will never let her go but I was have to because my Career

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  • NathanDavis m
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    around four or five years... because we had very different plans towards the future and we were younger too, mutual agreement, completed our cycle as couple (=

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  • LiamJHayden
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    10 months. She moved to the East Coast for Grad School and I was building my business her in California.

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    • overthinkergirl
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      cool thanks for answering!:)

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  • Likes2drive
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    My marriage lasted 17 years, would have been longer if she didn’t cheat the last five

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    • overthinkergirl
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      sorry to hear about cheating:( u deserve better than that!

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    • Likes2drive
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      Thanks, it’s been 7 years and still looking

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  • Nikki1989
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    I have been with my husband for over 9 years now.

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  • EmmaMary
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    Lived with my fiancé for five years, before marrying him seven years ago.

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  • lorenzomichael
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    I couldn't tell you. But my shortest relationship lasted 6 days.

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  • TonyMetal___86
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    9 years with my ex wife, it's not we split, she left and later filed for a divorce, after years i mean!

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  • Wiredone
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    So far it's been 36 years and still going strong. Dated for 6 years then married for 30 years

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  • Bobby88t
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    It was three years and she was also jelous. She put penis cage even while she was away. One month was the longest.

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  • mandyfire98
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    Technically six years overall. Still going

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    • overthinkergirl
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      that’s nice!! happy for u:))

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    • mandyfire98
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      Thank you

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  • BarryLiverstone
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    Over a year. And I had graduated college

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    • overthinkergirl
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      alright cool:)

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  • jahaims
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    12 years. We are still together

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    • overthinkergirl
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      cutee:))

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  • hopelesslyhelpless
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    1 year, ended because he slept with my “best friend”.

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  • exitseven
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    I have been married for 27 years. So far so good.

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  • Drumlin2001
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    5 years and counting

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  • FunkyMonkee
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    10 years.
    She cheated on me!

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  • Luckycharms12
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    12 year's

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