Is it a bad thing to be too flirty? (Page 2)

Question

Okay, so I went to that art show today.  It was very poshy.  I wore black heels for the first time in 4 months after injury and poured milk tea on it on my way, because I am clumsy, Went to the bathroom to take it out, but the shoe material was different and this milk shake looked whiteish on my black look doesn’t matter how much I tried to clean and Ruined my look with the nice black little dress.  Of course I felt very bad as I was going to a fashion designer, who would look me up like Meryl Streep from Devil Wears Prada.  So, I flirted with him to shift his attention from my shoe to my personality lol My friend told me he liked me, because he couldn’t take his eyes off me and also gave me some of his designed clothes to model for him.  Now I went home to change my shoes and am back to work, but I feel very awkward about that shoe lol But he texted me he can’t wait to see me again.  I guess it’s good?

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't flirt irl. i would probably find it really awkward. to each his own i guess

WhitneySnow · Answer

If you like him it’s not a bad thing at all

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not a bad thing. Be yourself, and attract the men who will love you as you are.

BIZARRE_TRUTH · Answer

yeah if you were being real and not fake. if you're fake you're trash right?

AryanWarlord · Answer

I mean it depends on what you mean by too flirty
Because I’m fine with someone being too flirty as long as it doesn’t come off as fake
But if what they say feels fake then it’s just annoying to deal with

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I wouldn't want to be too flirty to come off as creepy.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Only if you are flirty with guys you aren’t interested in or if you are in a relationship and flirting with other people still

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Technically you were a little deceitful. But I understand why you did it, considering the circumstances.

WhyohWhy69 · Answer

Yes. In fact, people get assaulted and murdered for it. That’s why a lot of women are distant with men. It happens all the time.

fizzyliz1 · Answer

I don't think so. A lot of young people like to flirt. It's only bad if you're in an exclusive relationship and then it's considered cheating.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I mean in this situation you flirted to your advantage. Provided you aren’t in a relationship, or trying to take a guy out of one, I see no issue

innerman · Answer

How a great story that would be…  “… and that kids, is how I met your father”

OddBeMe · Answer

If you’re too stupid to gauge your flirting toward stupid people you probably shouldn’t do it.

goebenbreslau · Answer

if you're a woman, it's bad because that kind of women can't maintain a healthy relationship

dazzinu69 · Answer

I think if it feels good and natural go with it

lorenzomichael · Answer

Not unless you’re a prostitute. Then that is just advertising

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I’m too flirty and then I end up flirting with someone I’m not into

Likes2drive · Answer

It depends on your intentions and seems he has a shoe fetish too

Staximus · Answer

I thought you were not supposed to be heels.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

My female friend and I flirt all the time to each other.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

The fashion designer is Michael kors? Lol

MassiveDik · Answer

Why stop there? Should of given him a massive blow job.

BloodCursedDeviant · Answer

I think it’s cute and I welcome it whenever a girl gets flirty with me lol

Romasona · Answer

If you flirt too much with a lot of people then you have attention seeking problem

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Not for me. And that's coming from a 45 year old man!

Shy_Steve · Answer

Yes, Because some Guys that are Players might think your easy and take advantage of you.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

When you include the word too it is by definition too much.

In_Trance · Answer

That's up to the person you're flirting with to decide

JayBones2469 · Answer

Only if you want to live a serious life with serious achievements

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Bad in the sense you are probably going to attract unwanted attention

ISFPCaramelPrincess · Answer

Yeah you never want to flirt with the wrong guy and potentially get stalked so be careful with that.

IloveWinters · Answer

I don't think it's bad... unless you don't attract bad people...

krin_m · Answer

Flirting is normally not bad. Depends on the context.

JackMeoff21009 · Answer

No being flirty is hot as fuck and makes people remember you.

Bipolar_Fashion · Answer

Of course, if you aren't interested in a relationship.

riverrat3 · Answer

It would depend on the results you want vs the results you get

Anonymous · Answer

It's like how a knife can be used to make a wonderful dish or murder someone...

elizamichale1 · Answer

I dont see anything wrong in tht

Sonorous · Answer

Yeah

serious · Answer

Yes that is of course very bad.

BadApple69 · Answer

Flirty is fun. I see no issue with it.

NathanDavis · Answer

with a judge... probably

RossyBoi · Answer

Maybe he just wants to be friends?

overthinkergirl · Answer

more bad than good for sure

ThaMaskedMarvel · Answer

Yes, it's bad.

RavVid · Answer

It would seem so indeed.

livishay · Answer

Yes, cause some people can get the wrong idea

happyfoetus · Answer

It sounds a plan to me. Try your luck

stratford · Answer

Cock tease is not a good look

Sameone · Answer

It's depends on how u do it

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not really as long as it is done tastefully

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Not with me... hey hey hey

Olgamasha · Answer

If you like him, then you did it well.

boobliker · Answer

not a problem with that

ALLURING24 · Answer

I am not a flirty person, so I don’t know.

Lokiion · Answer

It’s not bad at all

red324 · Answer

Guys don't care about shoes lol

jahaims · Answer

That's what pick mes do

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I don't believe in being too flirty.

CocacolaGirl1993 · Answer

It can be both ways. It helps me with tips.

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