In the same way its cringey if it's always about flirting or always about sex lol. There's other things to talk about and behave like a standard human being. I don't want a woman who'll drive me crazy and likewise women don't want a guy who's only in it for the pants undoing lol 😂😆 🩳👖
Everyone likes a flirt whether they admit it or not. I view it more as a selling point for your personality than as a bad mark. Even at posh events being a flirt will make you more likable to more people. And the people who don't like you, well fuck them! Lmao!
You intentionally became flirty in this case. So in its context, I’d say it’s okay to do if that helps but be prepared that many guys will get aggressive if you flirt and don’t have intentions. If you had not flirted to this specific guy, would you be content him wanting to be around you off that first interaction you two had?
Over all it’s a train wreck behavior if you truly asked me.
If your definition of flirting is like the Oxford definition: "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions", and the other person's definition in THEIR mind is that "flirting is NOT for amusement", then you have trouble. If you're both on the same page, then you know what to expect.
Being flirty can put you into trouble, can cause misunderstandings and judgmental assumptions from others. Well, in your case it didn't and that's good for you. But be mindful that is does not always work especially if you're at work.
Being “too” anything is not good. The word “too” implies that whatever quality being talked about is possessed in excessive amounts. Yes, being extremely flirty is definitely a bad thing. A lot of men will interpret it the wrong way, and think you like them when in reality you don’t. There’s also a significant amount of people who think being really flirty is just outright immature. So, yes, all in all not a very desirable trait to have.
Depends on who your being flirty to if it's your partner then be as flirty as you want to just your partner but if you have a partner and you are to flirty with other people then yes it's very bad to be to flirty
Its only your mind running away that makes it bad. He texted you so its good. And... who knows that can also be a conversation topic in the future to laugh about
Of course. As soon as you use the descriptor “too”, you’ve established that you’re crossing a boundary. Being “too” anything is an issue. That’s literally the reason for the word. Ell oh ell!
It can be. Because I might not want to make things official quickly so the flirting a lot may come off as a bit pushy. Maybe you wouldn't mind, but I wouldn't flirt back as much and that is what creates the pressure and mixed signals.
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Only if u do it to someone that u love. Dont be flirty with the entire population you are surrounding with, that is bad and major red flag. And dont also flirting with someone you had no intention to be together with
Yes, because a boy could get beaten up by the girl's boyfriend or slapped (or worse) by the object of his affections. ("Object of his affections?" If you didn't know I'm old, that aged phrase should clinch it.)
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In the same way its cringey if it's always about flirting or always about sex lol. There's other things to talk about and behave like a standard human being. I don't want a woman who'll drive me crazy and likewise women don't want a guy who's only in it for the pants undoing lol 😂😆 🩳👖
Everyone likes a flirt whether they admit it or not. I view it more as a selling point for your personality than as a bad mark. Even at posh events being a flirt will make you more likable to more people. And the people who don't like you, well fuck them! Lmao!
You intentionally became flirty in this case.
So in its context, I’d say it’s okay to do if that helps but be prepared that many guys will get aggressive if you flirt and don’t have intentions.
If you had not flirted to this specific guy, would you be content him wanting to be around you off that first interaction you two had?
Over all it’s a train wreck behavior if you truly asked me.
If your definition of flirting is like the Oxford definition: "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions", and the other person's definition in THEIR mind is that "flirting is NOT for amusement", then you have trouble. If you're both on the same page, then you know what to expect.
Being flirty can put you into trouble, can cause misunderstandings and judgmental assumptions from others. Well, in your case it didn't and that's good for you. But be mindful that is does not always work especially if you're at work.
Being “too” anything is not good. The word “too” implies that whatever quality being talked about is possessed in excessive amounts. Yes, being extremely flirty is definitely a bad thing. A lot of men will interpret it the wrong way, and think you like them when in reality you don’t. There’s also a significant amount of people who think being really flirty is just outright immature. So, yes, all in all not a very desirable trait to have.
Depends on who your being flirty to if it's your partner then be as flirty as you want to just your partner but if you have a partner and you are to flirty with other people then yes it's very bad to be to flirty
Its only your mind running away that makes it bad. He texted you so its good. And... who knows that can also be a conversation topic in the future to laugh about
Of course. As soon as you use the descriptor “too”, you’ve established that you’re crossing a boundary.
Being “too” anything is an issue. That’s literally the reason for the word. Ell oh ell!
Not for me, it comes very naturally with me, with everyone.
But, I do know my limits. Sometimes those get pushed, but, what you gonna do? 😂
Other than learn!! 💯❤️
Reads like you're suffering autism or ADD as that is just strange and silly behaviour for so little gain.
I can’t say I am suffering 🤣
It can be. Because I might not want to make things official quickly so the flirting a lot may come off as a bit pushy. Maybe you wouldn't mind, but I wouldn't flirt back as much and that is what creates the pressure and mixed signals.
Only if u do it to someone that u love. Dont be flirty with the entire population you are surrounding with, that is bad and major red flag. And dont also flirting with someone you had no intention to be together with
Yes, if you are in a relationship. All flirting should halt. If single it is not bad generally.
Its good , but I dont think your reasoning with regard the shoe makes any sense at all , he would not notice that.
Being flirty is good. It's only bad when you flirt with people who are married or who are taken in a relationship.
Not at all, but do not lead a guy on if you have no intention of asking him out or looking for a hookup or relationship
bad if u use it to play with others feelings, misleading em
building dreams in their heads just to move on
thats when its bad
also bad if it will be used for some wicked gain
Yes especially when done indiscriminatly all the time or with every one...
Or needlessly caring it on n on with someone... ie friends or relatives partner or spouse... or a known rival or acquaintance
Yes, because a boy could get beaten up by the girl's boyfriend or slapped (or worse) by the object of his affections. ("Object of his affections?" If you didn't know I'm old, that aged phrase should clinch it.)