Naturally flirty, a good thing?

[Lexiwho]

I have a naturally, flirty personality. Sometimes it’s intentional 😉 😉 sometimes it’s not and just the way I am. I’ve had varying degrees of reactions. Is that a good thing? Why? Is it a bad thing? Why?

[LordSnuggles]

Can go both ways, really. I had a friend, Carlina, who was very similar in a lot of ways. Had many guy friends and at least half have had a crush on her. Great looking girls, thin, DDs, avid gamer, loved laser tag, worked at hooters, very friendly, and likable. Sat on her friends laps, joked about her own boobs, and sex life. On the surface it all seems normal but it did seem to attract a lot her friends. So intentional or not, many had crushes on her. She didn't pursue them which often resulted in those friends leaving or feeling slighted. She'd often sleep over at her friend's houses in their bed with them. She slept over at my house once and she walked around in tiny shorts and tiny tank. Might seem totally find to her but I can see how that kind of behavior might be confusing to a guy. So the downside of being flirty is you put yourself in a needlessly confusing situation where guys won't know if you're doing it intentionally or not.

[Lexiwho]

Hmmmmm good point. In my case, I don’t have a lot to flaunt in the sense that how I dress is overtly sexually flirty. My flirtiness is merely confined to personality and, I think, confidence. I play and joke and keep eye contact without intending anything more than I would intend with the closest of my friends. But I understand your warning. And I am in agreement. I would categorize your friend’s flirtiness as an abuse of being naturally flirty. I hope I’m genuine in saying that I try not to do that. But thanks! Great point!

[LordSnuggles]

I'd agree. And many girls do intentionally do it for attention as I suspect she did. walking around in a thong basically and thin tank you can basically see through is not something most girls would do in front of their male friends. Maybe I'm wrong and I jsut had the wrong female friends. This makes it confusing for others and ultimately affects you because your friendliness could construed the same way, as a means of inviting attention. Which is unfair but it happens and makes things more confusing especially for dumb guys.

[Lexiwho]

And dumb girls! Girls have taken issue with me because of how they perceive my friendliness! My life is so hard! 😊

[boggboss]

Depends objectivly it's not good or bad but it will effect the partner you will pick up as some people are not happy with a flirtatious partner that enjoys flirting with others

[Lexiwho]

Therein lies the problem! Most of the time, people perceive me as being flirty, when I’m just being me. Sucks being me sometimes. 😂 kidding. It’s AWESOME! 😂 I’m also incredibly humble 😊

[boggboss]

Good to hear

[MissDawn7961]

being naturally flirty is not a bad thing unless your married and then you need to do it with your husband only

[Secret6620]

I feel the exact same way. I don't think it's a bad thing. I just like to have fun and make new friends💕

[Lexiwho]

I feel ya 😊

[Secret6620]

Thanks for mho 💗

[Lexiwho]

You’re very welcome 😉 😊

[FourStringWonder]

Depends if you're married or not. If not you're just being you and that's good :)

[Johnson6799]

I think it contributes to ones personality in a positive way providing you use it in moderation.

[fett253]

Don't think there's anything wrong with it, people enjoy flirting.

[bradbradley]

well I've got a story on this if you would wanna pm me for it its kinda crazy really

[jimmy2]

Humm like to meet you

[Lexiwho]

That’s not an answer! 😂

[LiamSawyer]

It can be a good thing and sometimes a lot of fun.

[Agape93]

Yeah