Do you like the response people give when they cheat that you shouldn’t have been so naive?

[Anonymous]

[livishay]

Oh that’s so naive for them to say. We are humans like did we expect them to cheat? Absolutely not but I think they are naive for even doing it. Naive to love and communication. Being naive to even thinking they could love in the first place

[dustybiker2]

That's their reaction to being caught and trying to flip it.

[Asker]

For what? What is the point?

[dustybiker2]

It's knee-jerk. So embarrassment? They are already the type of person to give themself permission to cheat. Why not flip it and try to deflect too.

[Asker]

I just find them to be dumb.

[Cheapskate]

That is gaslighting. What kind of psycho says that?

[Asker]

People do all the time when they cheat blame you for everything.

[Nikki1989]

If you are a woman you have to expect to get cheated on by a man at some point in your life.

[Asker]

But do you like the excuses that they give?

[Peridot25]

Should men expect the same from women?

[Asker]

@Peridot25 I wouldn't know because I don't date women on the crazy stuff women do in relationships.

[abc3643]

No, of course not.
Such people should be executed.

[DrPepper12]

Cop out gas lighting. Classic battered spouse talk "look what you made me do" type thinking

[laly520]

cheaters being the worse

typical

[Asker]

That’s what they do when they cheat blame it on you why they cheated.

[laly520]

yes they gaslight thinking they would get away with it

[Asker]

I used to get mad when my exes would do that.

[sheikalana]

What excuses are you talking about?

[Asker]

I just said it in the question.

[sheikalana]

I never heard men say that they're girlfriend it too naive for thinking he's not going to cheat.

[Asker]

Well that happen to me before when one of my exes cheated on me they don’t care.

[sheikalana]

If they cheated is because they didn't care even before they cheated.

[OtterMan68]

no, it's victim blaming

[spicythunder]

no, not going