Girls, at what point is your husband’s friendship with a female coworker too close?

[Anonymous]

Where do you draw the line? What point is too close for comfort for you?

[SueShe]

As soon as flirting is involved. That should be the limit. Flirting, by definition is:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

We all know what "deeper relationship" means, don't we.

Thus, if a partner is caught flirting or allowing flirting with a female coworker, that is where I would draw the line and make it clear that I would not tolerate such primitive behavior.

Also, infringing in the intimate sphere, meaning being closer than 3 feet of that person when having a conversation. Of course, if you are in a crowd, you can sometimes not avoid being closer.