And if they also spent time together outside of work with other coworkers? I know a few coworkers that do this and I’m wondering if I am too jealous and conservative or if they are just fuxked because I would never tolerate this
Honestly luv, I'd be really sketched out if my partner was acting like that with a coworker. Flirting for over 10 years and going out of their way to talk to this person every day? Nah, that's not cool at all.
A little friendly chatting at work is one thing, but it sounds like they're way closer than just coworkers. Spending personal time together outside of work too is crossing a big line in my opinion.
You've gotta have trust and boundaries in a relationship. This doesn't sound like they're respecting either of those things. I wouldn't be jealous - I'd be questioning what the hell is really going on between them.
No way would I be cool with my girl acting like that with another dude. It's one thing if they were just friends way back before we met, but continuing that kind of flirty "friendship" for over a decade after we're married? Nah bro, major red flags.
Trust your gut on this one. If they can't understand reasonable boundaries, then they aren't being faithful partners. You deserve way better than that bs.
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LOL not at all. In fact, my SO is free to see other guys, so long as a couple easy conditions are met.
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