Me and my boyfriend were drinking and he turned like a different person. We have been also drinking before and he was never like this. Never violent, never abuse. This time was different. He used violence. I was with my phone and when I didn't pay attention to him, he started to shout. I went to the bedroom and he followed me. He put his hand on my face and punched it strong. I also hit him a little bit and he hit me. I wanted to sleep, but he wanted to talk. I layed down in the bed and he was up on me. Then we fall down from the bed and he was sitting on me. He didn't let me go. I said I can't breath and he let go off me. He threated to kill me and himself but didn't do it. Then he just called me a bitch and other bad names. I also showed him a middle finger. After a while, he became very regretful what he has done, he cried and apologized. The next day he continued to be regretful and cried many times. He said he became like a beast that he never before was. He is the most loving and kind man, but this time when drunk he was someone completely different. What should I do? :(
If there is someone you can contact or stay with to prevent further violence, then go to them and talk about what's happening. Tell your friends and family, the police a therapist, or anyone that can help you. Go to the emergency room for your injuries if you haven't already.
If you can't leave the relationship try getting couples therapy, or signing him up to drug addicts anonymous.
if you're in the US these links might be helpful.
1-800-656-4673
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…. Do we really need to tell you to leave that relationship?
Leave?
Guy has some serious problems.
His apologies mean nothing.
He threatened to kill you. That should always be taken seriously. And I personally have very little sympathy for this kind of behaviour because I have seen people who have been killed or stabbed by their boyfriends.
Not a laughing matter. And I hope for you and your family's sake an immediate deal breaker.
Bye Felicia. NOT GOOD! It's not going to get any better either. Cut your losses.
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