How do you know if your SO is using you?

[Anonymous]

[LiamJHayden]

Lack of reciprocation. You're paying her bills. She insists on expensive restaurants with you paying the bill.

[ManInChains]

You don't until it's too late

[Asker]

I'm trying to decide if I want to deal only with friends with benefits because relationships are too painful now.

[ManInChains]

If you could just go celibate if recommend that and just stick to masturbating but if you simply can't fathom not having sex I guess just stick with friends with benefits. Smh.. The fact that men can't stop fucking is why women think so men are rapists

[Asker]

Women can be that way too

[ManInChains]

How so?

[Asker]

I'm getting food on my table, without the job. I'll be starving and still grieving over my recent breakup if it wasn't for the women

[ManInChains]

I don't understand

[AI Opinion]

Aim: To sprinkle a little insight on recognizing if your significant other might just be using you. 🌶️

If cuddles come with a price tag or sweet nothings are whispered only when a favor is in the air, your love radar might be picking up some using vibes. When your dynamic feels more like a transaction than an outpouring of genuine affection, it's a pretty glaring red flag. If they're ghosting you until they need something or their promises are as empty as a forgotten Valentine's, it’s time to question the balance. True love is a dance of give and take, not a solo performance where you're the only one giving. Keep an eye out for constant take with no give, emotional withdrawals with no deposits, or feeling more like a utility than a partner. Love should lift you up, not leave you questioning your worth.

[lightbulb27]

Collect opinions and outside council. How do you feel?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I find that easy to spot.

[Asker]

marriages you can't get out on

[Billlewis]

When I'm much happier than I was before ❤️

[thisAppIsGarbage]

If they know how much bitcoin you have.

[serious_miss419]

You can feel it.

[Whitedog1]

Lack of eye contact!

[jahaims]

Common sense

[Asker]

How so, woman are very good on manipulating Emotions.

[jahaims]

You are just vulnerable to manipulation

[Asker]

I'm thinking about taking the friends with benefits route when the time is right.