Is it wrong to enjoy spending time with a guy, who’s in a relationship with someone else, just because he makes me feel good?

[Anonymous]

Now don’t get me wrong I’m not talking about having an affair with him, I doubt he’s interested in me like that anyway, but just talking to him makes me feel calm and content. It’s quite weird actually, but I just really like chatting with him.

He’s a good guy, smart and funny and we get on well. But that is it.

Could that be seen as crossing some sort of line?

[DarkLegacy]

Yeah that is a bad situation because it will not stop at that. You realize this as well, you need to withdraw from the situation

[Asker]

That’s a fair comment, I wouldn’t be wanting to double check if it didn’t feel a bit off.

[spartan55]

Go find a single guy ffs. Just no shame whatsoever.

[WhitneySnow]

You guys are good friends. Nothing wrong with that.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic conundrum of enjoying someone's company a tad too much—especially when they are already in a relationship. This is a delicate dance of boundaries and intentions, isn't it? Feeling calm and content around someone is wonderful, but it's crucial to keep those feelings in check to avoid stepping into risky territory.

It's not inherently wrong to enjoy someone's company, regardless of their relationship status, as long as boundaries are respected by all parties involved. It seems like you're aware of the importance of not crossing any lines, which is a great sign of your respect for his relationship. Keeping it friendly and recognizing your own feelings can help ensure that this friendship doesn't inadvertently become a cause for concern.

Just be mindful about how much emotional energy you're investing and how this dynamic might be viewed by his partner. Transparency and honesty are key. As long as you're both clear about your intentions and respectful of existing relationships, enjoying a friendship is not crossing a line. Love and connections come in many forms, after all!

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

as long as his girlfriend know it and doesn't mind , its fine

[jahaims]

Do you not understand what friends are?

[Asker]

Of course, but there are boundaries.

[jahaims]

If you understand what a friend is, then you would understand the boundaries involved.

[SotiCoto]

Obviously.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ew yeah