My boyfriend and I have been together for a good while. Since we've been together I haven't had many friends and my life has been revolved around him and my education. Last year I started feeling really miserable about not having a social life of my own. Some girls that I worked with invited me out to a bar and I agreed to go. I was excited, although drinking isn't really my thing but I guess I was desperate. Everyone was dancing and I felt super awkward just standing there so I danced with this guy. The next day I felt terrible about it. Then I went again a few months later, I didn't dance with anyone but my friend (my only friend who I've known since childhood). Then a guy asked for my number. I thought it'd be cool to possibly meet some new people so I told him he could have it but that I have a boyfriend. But I blocked him after he was being flirty. I feel super guilty about everything and have learned my lesson. I'm avoiding bars forever now because that's not me (my coworkers even noted how out of place I looked) and I don't like succumbing to peer pressure. I want to tell my boyfriend but whenever I am honest with him it blows up in my face. My mom told me that sometimes you can't tell people everything, I didn't cheat and just don't put myself in sticky situations anymore. I still feel so stupid.
Should I feel bad about dancing with another guy?
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