Should I feel bad about dancing with another guy?

[LKroos]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a good while. Since we've been together I haven't had many friends and my life has been revolved around him and my education. Last year I started feeling really miserable about not having a social life of my own. Some girls that I worked with invited me out to a bar and I agreed to go. I was excited, although drinking isn't really my thing but I guess I was desperate. Everyone was dancing and I felt super awkward just standing there so I danced with this guy. The next day I felt terrible about it. Then I went again a few months later, I didn't dance with anyone but my friend (my only friend who I've known since childhood). Then a guy asked for my number. I thought it'd be cool to possibly meet some new people so I told him he could have it but that I have a boyfriend. But I blocked him after he was being flirty. I feel super guilty about everything and have learned my lesson. I'm avoiding bars forever now because that's not me (my coworkers even noted how out of place I looked) and I don't like succumbing to peer pressure. I want to tell my boyfriend but whenever I am honest with him it blows up in my face. My mom told me that sometimes you can't tell people everything, I didn't cheat and just don't put myself in sticky situations anymore. I still feel so stupid.

[Cmasterson]

You want to tell your boyfriend honestly where you are without him blowing up in your face? Thats not a red flag? It is, you shouldn't feel like you have to walk on egg shells. And yes sometimes you tell white lies however if you feel as if you can't tell your boyfriend where you're going thats not a good thing.

[Anonymous]

You just danced with him. You shouldn't be worried that your boyfriend is going to be mad at you.

[NerdInDenial]

Don't tell him and let it go

[Anonymous]

No.. its just a dance