When your partner is getting a drastic change in their appearance, do you believe they should ask if you're okay with it?

[HawkPerception]

Drastic changes like a haircut from long to short or tomboy, piercings, tattoos, etc.

Yes

No

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t believe that they should ask you for permission or if you’re “okay with it”, but they should definitely let you know about the change prior to it happening.

[jahaims]

Level of attraction matters a lot. You should want to look best for your partner. Not for yourself or the public.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I am not one to give advice on a woman's appearance. She can do whatever she wants

[HawkPerception]

If your partner wants to get a tomboy haircut, get a septum ring, eyebrow piercing, lip injection, bbl and a boob job, she can get it without consulting you?

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife is very traditional and dresses very conservative. None of those things would interest her

[HawkPerception]

Exactly so stop with your nonsense logic

[BonzoInBitburg]

If she drastically changed her appearance, she wouldn't change into something out of character. She got a tattoo a few months ago without telling me and I didn't care. She can change her appearance as much as she wants because she's not going to do something out of character. She's very traditional and conservative so any change in appearance will still be very traditional and conservative.

[HawkPerception]

Again... exactly. You're not dating a woman that would do this so it doesn't even apply to you and likely never will. Your comment is nonsense.

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you know your partner, you won't have a problem. So by not taking this into consideration, your question is nonsense.

[BonzoInBitburg]

You never once considered that someone could change their appearance and look better.

[HawkPerception]

If you're attracted to their features that they have in the first place, then changing their appearance "drastically" usually entails it being a change for the worse. And if they respect your opinion and care at all about what you think, they should consult you first.

If they have no partner, then by all means they can be Free Willy.

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife used my credit card a couple months ago to get a tattoo and dye her hair without asking me for permission and I did not care one bit. You asked the question and I gave my answer. She can do what she wants with her appearance without asking and I'm ok with it.

[HawkPerception]

and dyed her hair***

[BonzoInBitburg]

Why the hell do you even ask a question if you can't accept an answer? I don't know why you care so much that I DO NOT CARE IF MY PARTNER DRASTICALLY CHANGES HER APPEARANCE. Deal with it. It has nothing to do with brain cells and everything to do with maturity. Pick your hill to die on, this isn't it.

[HawkPerception]

If I ask if you're cool with killing someone for apostasy and you say yes, it doesn't mean I have to accept your answer. Again... smooth brain ya have there.

[KittygosMeoWW]

No…..

[HawkPerception]

If your partner decides they want to shave their head bald or tattoo their eyes, you're cool with it without them saying a word to you?

[KittygosMeoWW]

They wouldn’t be my partner if they made those drastic changes

[HawkPerception]

So then you do believe that they should ask you.